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Hi everyone, I just turned 24 years old and I am in a relationship spanning 5 years. My bf and I have gone through various phases when it comes to sex, and currently our interest is in a threesome. I would love to have sex with my bf and another guy and my bf is definitely into it. I am also willing to try double penetration.

Now my questions are, how exactly does it feel? does it hurt at first? is it very uncomfortable? etc etc

the more details the better....we have talked about this frequently and more and more we get into it, I am just wondering.....thank you..

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Go to the sex Forum and look up anal sex threads, there is alot of information for you to view...

I will state from what I have read, that the person whom you choose needs to be experienced, or else you could very much get hurt...

Enjoy the Forum ....

CW

[rcoreyus]

You can try double penetration with your boyfriend and a sex toy to see how it feels.

[SeansGirl]

thank you very much....I am considering that!

[p3375]

Yeah, agree strongly w/ royc - try out w/ toy first.

No 'I can't look them in the eyes' feelin next a.m. w/ toy (haha but true)

+ you have more control (important!) +lots of odd emotions w/ +2 folks havn sex 2 gather.

let us know how turns out
P

[dragonofjapan]

There are a few things.
First, your anus can take a fist as many people over the years have proven. It is a matter of learning to control the muscles.
Start with a toy, and try the following
6 quick panting breaths followed by one deep breath held for count of 12 then breathe out for the count of 12, 6 more pants and a deep count of 6 out count of 6

with 99 out of 100 women I have used this on it works everytime.

Once the second man is inside with you straddling your lover
Slide forward squeezing buttocks tight as man behind pulls out to 'just head in'
as you slide back he slides in.

You will quickly find the rhythm and might lose your mind once you start up the slope.
Some women find this lightly more addictive than heroin.

[snuffie]

My advice would be to try double penetration with your partner and a sex toy a lot more control that way, thats as far as I have gone it's is amazing and addictive, I discussed involving a 3rd person with my ex but he turned it down.....

[Allie602]

Why would you want to do this? It's unusual for a man who is in love with a woman to want to see her with another man. Is it your impression that this guy loves you? You might want to think about it. Second, I am not a man but I talk to them and most men get sceezed-out if they come anywhere near another man with an erect penis let alone enter the same girl with him. That is unless he is into penises, is he bi maybe. Is he planning to have sex with the guy? Why don't you tell him that's one of your fantasies too and ask him to do the other guy. Wouldn't that be fun? That's what I would do, in for a penneth, in for a pound, might as well get the most bang for your butts. Anywhoooo good for you, you are planning to do free what very very few woman would do outside of a porn studio making several thousands of dollars. I guess it compensation for the pain.

Couple of questions: Have you had anal sex before? If you haven't, I think you stand a big chance of having a painful rather than pleasurable experience. Anal sex is very painful, no matter what you read on these forums, take it with a grain rather a big dollop of salt. If someone says "anal not painful if you do it right" then its a man who wishes he could talk a women into anal but never has and he has never been anally penetrated himself. Two men with erect penises and hyped up on porn fantasies will not be at all too concerned and careful if you are hurting while they get their nuts off. As a matter of fact I bet you will not stop the proceedings, even if it was very painful because you would not want to disappoint the boys, they already bragged to their friends that they got a girl to do this. That's what this is all about right? Fun fun fun for your bf and his friend and they will not be denied by a little anal pain on your part.

They are probably high fiving each other at this very moment, how many guys get to do a 3 some? Men think it is a sign of there masculinity if they can get a woman do sexual things for them when there is actually nothing in it for her they won't tell you that though. It's really not about you, you are interchangeable with any willing woman. Now if either of these guys loved you, they would kill any one who tried to degtade or hurt you. If girls knew that it would not be so easy to talk them into being used to give a man bragging rights. You are giving them an experience of a lifetime - They going talk about that girl they had the 3some with till the day they die, they may not remember you yourself that well but they'll remember your vigina anus and mouth.

I don't know anyone who has done double penetration. I don't think you can use porn as an example of how this would work. There is allot of editing and choreography. The porn actress is usually high so if it hurts she does not know it. I would not believe anyone who post advice about how to do this from their wide experience. Any man who is banging women or men two by two is on some kink site sharing stores with kinks sites not on WH of all places. There are dreamers in all of us, being able to post anonymously makes for some very good fiction.

Think about what you are doing and why. Read stories about how woman feel after these adventures especially when they mature a little and are ready to settle down. Sometimes when you are young and adventurous you do thinks that you don't think through carefully because you don't know the pitfalls. Its only after it happens that you know. That's where advice from someone who is older and has your best interest at heart. They can discuss the pros and cons and then you can decide if you want to go ahead.

I have no first hand knowledge of 3 somes nor do I know any one who admits to doing them but if there is any element of your bf talking you into this after you have shared a fantasy with him, I would rethink things. If you are trying to out do a friend who said they did this I would ask for pics, chances are they are bragging and trying to see if you are fool enough to do so they can talk about you.

I'm just saying be careful and think about your future. In all of this, you are the one most vulnerable for physical and emotional harm. Some fantasies should remain so, the physical and emotional cost are too great. Having a fantasy with a toy will give you the same sensation and excitement but more control and protection for you. This may not make the bf happy but he does not appear to be as concerned about you as he is for his pleasure. So that's expected. What ever you do remember never let anyone guilt you, you come first because you are that valuable, if you bf not on board with that get rid of him. Oh yea, offer to do him with the dildo that aught to make him happy.

[LanaBear]

DP doesn't need to involve multiple partners, if couple's are interested. As others have stated toys make it a pleasurable experience without dealing with the emotions of a 3rd partner into the mix.