[tasha221]

They asked this question the other day on the show The Doctors and she said that there is only one type of orgasm.....just different intensitys. An orgasm is and orgasm is an orgasm is what she said.

[Joodgy]

I was up late with insomnia and was watching some show with an old lady who was answering this very question. She said that there are two types of female orgasm. One is a ripling or multiple orgasm. It comes and goes and can go on for a long time. (I know because i have personally experienced this one) The other is the build up to one major orgasm and that is it. Before my first child I only experience the first type, but since i believe i have had the other as well. Orgasms can very in strength length and intensity. I have only had one partner so i would be inclined to believe that the best orgasms come in a long term relationship that you feel comfortable talking about what you like and need from sex.

[robbin]

Thanks Everyone i guess now its a battle against my ideas and Freuds!!! lol i will have to work on this... very tentatively i have a feeling the power of the mind is going to play a big role on where and how i can achieve orgasm from!!! My biggest issue and reason for this question is i find it nearly impossible to achieve orgasm from just having intercourse and not stimulating myself with my hand while having sex... it would be nice to achieve this just by penetration..

Thanks for all your thoughts!!!

Jungle

ok this reminds me of a problem... i cannot get off by stimulating myself during "shenanigans" as i fondly call it. i dunno i guess i get stuck in a mindset, but i'd really like to be able to, i think my guy would enjoy watching, and i would enjoy it, cuz he doesn't always want to take the time to make me orgasm. sometimes i don't feel like i want to orgasm, but other times i really want it, and it's these times when he doesn't have the energy to work to get me to that point. so it would be nice. right now the only way i can orgams is if we are having shenanigans and he is focusing on stimulating me, otherwise i'm best to just forget about it till im by myself.