[whenkissescollide]

ok my gf and i have been together for about 2 years now (openly lesbian). and when we have sex its great but i can't orgasm without clitorial stimulation. asnd sometimes i have to do both penetraion and clitorial. is there somethng i can do to orgasm? new moves?

[nightqueen]

So you can only orgasm when your clit is stimulated? Sounds pretty normal to me.

[rcoreyus]

Mental can be as or more important than physical. Think of things you find really exciting - and try to do them with your girlfriend. Try acting on your fantasies (within reason of course).

[WildChild]

Get a copy of the Orgasm Loop, very educational, fun and she gives some info specific to lesbian sex.

[whenkissescollide]

so your saying it is normal?

[WildChild]

It's normal. Your clit is loaded with nerve endings but it has a 'root' if you will, that entends well beyond that little button and that can provide a lot of pleasure. The mental aspects are vital, women can orgasm from stimulation of nearly any part of their bodies as well as from purely mental stimlation. Getting educated helps.

[jessypoo3]

i dont think it's just you personally.
i am the same way. i cant orgasm from
sex alone. i need clitoral stimulation.

have you tried telling your gf to play
with it at the same time?

[BermudaGrl]

I can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation.

[pinkbutterfly]

I can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation as well.

[Emerald]

Yes, this is really really normal. The clit is your best friend.