[rhonda1967]

cassie66

Your sex life is frustrating me. After 20 yrs of marriage we always have sex at least twice a day.Before he goes to work and when he gets home. Some time we go for 3 or 4. it always starts with oral. He loves it when I greet him at the door, naked or have naked wearing some provacative new item. I just kiss him wetly then unzip his pants and go down on him. We have sex so often he does not have as much semen as he does if we have been apart for awhile. He loves using sex toys on me and watching me get excited. I squirt so much we had to get a doggie mat to keep from ruining our mattress. I know now how lucky I am to have a man that is so accomidating to my desires. He is so sure of himself that toys do not threaten him. I have a friend that can't use them because her husband is jealous of the toys.Ha
I told my husband about your problem with your guy and he immediately said" He is doing someone else"! His semen count is low, he can't get it up, he does not want it. " He is definately doing someone else." Man or woman, he is doing someone. How long have you been married? how well do you know him? Where does he work? Is it stressful for him? Just trying to help.

[rcoreyus]

Well cassie66 isn't alone. My wife and I have sex once or twice a month (which is more than it has been for the previous few years). She won't do oral on me - though I will do her (and I enjoy it) whenever she wants. I'm always happy to do whatever she wants in bed. I enjoy pleasing here - would do things for her even if she didn't reciprocate, but she doesn't even want that.

If I had the chance I'd want to make love to her every day, but mostly I feel like I am living with my sister.

[Phoebee]

im at my wits end he says i need to go to the docs to slowdown myy sex drive! says oral is disgusting etc hes only32!

Cassie I'm so sorry to hear this... I would need a shrink if I were in your shoes.