[OGFL]

just a longshot what might have been ur problem ( didnt get the answer i hoped for so must be something else)

as far spicing it up have tried roleplaying, spanking, dirty talk, public display( like u did with ur ex)or maybe blindfolding/ light bondage.

[collegegirl2009]

OGFL: Thanks for the suggestions. We have seriously done all of that. We've done role play, toys, movies, spanking, & everything else you suggested & then some.

[cassie66]

maybe you would lke t have sex with your current man in all those diff places you did with your ex? try asking your current man to go and do it eslewhere

[collegegirl2009]

That's a good idea. Thank you!

[Greydog72]

Collegegirl,

Just another mans option, but If my wife was wanting to do things like she did with an ex., I think I would feel more upset that she didn't find our relationship special in away that was our own. Need to make them yours together. I would never tell her, "this is the way my ex and I did it, lets do it that way too or this is where my ex and I did it, let do it there too" Just doesn't sound right, in my opinion

Also, talking with your ex. You got to remember that a mans ego is a lot more delinquent then you may think it is. He may say it's ok, but knowing that you continue to have some sort of feeling or relationship with your ex will still put a lot of pressure on him. If not now, later on. I would think that he would always think that he would have to compare himself to your ex. I agree with WildChild in that you need to think about your relationship and the direction it is going.

Good Luck

[collegegirl2009]

Greydog72: I would never tell him that I wanted to do something just because that's the way my ex & I did it. We've been together for 3 yrs so we have made plenty of our own memories as far as sex goes & other stuff. Ofcourse he doesn't know that I've thought about any of this. I'm not going to hurt his feelings like that.