[DollyH]

I know that most women don't orgasm through intercourse. So, we've been trying oral and him fingering me. They both feel good but still not as mind blowing as I thought. Maybe we're not doing it long enough? How long should he go? Also, if anyone has any tips...we're kind of new to this so any suggestions are welcome. Thanks.

[Greydog72]

Me too.

Wife just doesn't want to use toys yet.

[collegegirl2009]

Times just vary. Sometimes I can orgasm right away & other times it takes forever. It just depends on how turned on you are and with me at certain times of the month it's so easy to orgasm!

[Elysium]

my gf can take anywhere from 5-10 minutes, which is fast, when she is super hot before penetration or when she's on her period. Otherwise, 15-20 minutes. Everyonce in awhile, not at all.

[collegegirl2009]

I did forget to mention that my record is only taking 45 seconds to orgasm & it was 4 times in a row.

[kms]

You could try intercourse and him rubbing you with his hand (or you doing it yourself). I prefer that much more than just oral or fingering - so much better. It usually takes me maybe 20 minutes or so... I wish I could cum more than once! grrr collegegirl2009! I managed to do it twice one time, but it took a long time and a lot of work on my bf's part...

[collegegirl2009]

KMS: I think that was just a random (yet awesome) experience. It was with my ex the first time we had sex. Weird, I know right?!? Usually the first time isn't the greatest since you're getting to know each other. He was just particularly awesome at sex. My now longterm bf & I use the little egg or silver bullet when we want me to orgasm faster.

[nightqueen]

It just depends on how excitied I am. Sometimes around 10 minutes, sometimes longer. The longer I'm with my husband the quicker he can make me do it.;

[kms]

hehe definitely sounds fun collegegirl! hmmm toys to speed up the process - that sounds like a good idea! My bf has been wanting to get me some but I haven't been sure about it... perhaps I ought to look into it!