I know that most women don't orgasm through intercourse. So, we've been trying oral and him fingering me. They both feel good but still not as mind blowing as I thought. Maybe we're not doing it long enough? How long should he go? Also, if anyone has any tips...we're kind of new to this so any suggestions are welcome. Thanks.
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Me too.
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Times just vary. Sometimes I can orgasm right away & other times it takes forever. It just depends on how turned on you are and with me at certain times of the month it's so easy to orgasm!Comment
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my gf can take anywhere from 5-10 minutes, which is fast, when she is super hot before penetration or when she's on her period. Otherwise, 15-20 minutes. Everyonce in awhile, not at all.Comment
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I did forget to mention that my record is only taking 45 seconds to orgasm & it was 4 times in a row.Comment
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You could try intercourse and him rubbing you with his hand (or you doing it yourself). I prefer that much more than just oral or fingering - so much better.
It usually takes me maybe 20 minutes or so... I wish I could cum more than once! grrr collegegirl2009! I managed to do it twice one time, but it took a long time and a lot of work on my bf's part...
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KMS: I think that was just a random (yet awesome) experience. It was with my ex the first time we had sex. Weird, I know right?!? Usually the first time isn't the greatest since you're getting to know each other. He was just particularly awesome at sex. My now longterm bf & I use the little egg or silver bullet when we want me to orgasm faster.Comment
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It just depends on how excitied I am. Sometimes around 10 minutes, sometimes longer. The longer I'm with my husband the quicker he can make me do it.
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hehe definitely sounds fun collegegirl! hmmm toys to speed up the process - that sounds like a good idea! My bf has been wanting to get me some but I haven't been sure about it... perhaps I ought to look into it!Comment
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