[ycats]

I think i had and orgasm but i'm not sure? I read on here its not pee but how can you tell the difference?

[ycats]

anybody have some advise for me.....i'm in dought and it's killing me and you know u can't ask someone u know about this......it's embarrasing anybody?

[redhead22]

an orgasm can range from a very intense feeling of pleasure where you can actually feel the contractions of the uterus to a mildly pleasurable feeling down there. there are clitoral and g-spot orgasms. some people have them some people don't.

[Guest]

i agree with redhead 22. it can be a kind of intense feeling or rather mild. it is not necessarily associated with any discharge.

[ycats]

so is squirting not an orgasm?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Yes, it is an orgasm... Usually, from G-spot stimulation which is around 2 inches inside....

It is not pee, so don't feel alarmed... Alot of women, try to have this but can't and for those that experience it for the first time, become alarmed if they are not educated over what it is..

But, you recall how it felt, it felt great .. It is an orgasm..

I would suspect you are a very sexual person from your other post and that's great, just enjoy your body, who you are, and know you are a woman.

CW

[ycats]

k. thanks I have to read some more.lol and educate myself on what u just told me.and yes i've become much more sexual but just recently. I just hit 30 and it's like im infatuated with anything and everything that has to do with sex. I married young now with all that experience!!!!....and divorced....... i'm learning new things all the time so yeah its fun.....i feel like i just came out of jail and again thnx for the advise

[CHANDLERS WISH]

haha..

mmm.. I can relate to all of that.

Separated, (need to Divorce), 45, I do recall my youth with things awakening but unfortunately, ex boyfriend and ex husband were um... duds? Non understanding of sexuality should I say...

So supressed... But, finding yourself is an amazing journey, truly amazing... That's all I am saying on the subject.

Oh except, I learn't alot from here and decided to try (on my own), and well... you get the jist.

CW

[ycats]

i agree with learning from here.but it almost feels like i'm doin somthing wrong. you know secretly ....i know its not...but what i call normal people dont talk about these things.....so is there a certain book u recommend how about movies u think i should watch that..... now that i have....................i glanced at but not u know watch! i dont even know what to do with toys ...not that i have any but IF i did.....how do u ask a man to join u with toys if i don't even know how to use them !!!?..........this sucks......

[CHANDLERS WISH]

mmm... Well WildChild probably knows of books, Sinister, Movies, and other's, as well so I will leave all of that for them to answer, and if they miss this post? Then I will off course bring it up again.

To be honest? Here they talk, outside world, I agree people don't...

And, the best way to learn anything is via experiementing is it not? And, finding... but I understand books and movies help you "visualise" ..

Guess I am a practical girl not a theory girl.

You will get answers.