[CrazyTash]

last night my boyfriend and i were having sex, and he went doggy style then just pulled out and pushed me down and put it in my , he didnt have my consent and i dunno what to do because i didnt want to do it and he forced me

[SinisterUrge]

This the same guy that broke your nose back in january?

[rcoreyus]

I'm very sorry.

How bad it is depends:
If it was accidental (it can happen by accident), then he owes you a big apology.

If it was intentional, but you didn't tell you to stop - you need to have a really serious talk about what he can and can't try without asking first. (I'm assuming you haven't done this with him before).

If he kept doing it even after you told him to stop - thats a whole different thing - its rape. You might have a tough time getting him arrested - but at least you should throw him out of the house.

[rcoreyus]

Just saw the next post. If it is the same guy - press charges.

[WildChild]

Rcoreyus has pretty well summed it up. It can happen by accident. But your description doesn't sound much like an accident. If this is the nose breaker, you are in an abusive relationship and must get out NOW. Do press charges, if nothing else it gets his behavior on record so you can get a restraining order and take other legal steps as needed. Hte more you tollerate, the worse it will get.

[mewhenim]

I second what has already been said, plus a verbal and possibly physical lashing. What did you say when it happened? What did he say? Had you ever discussed anal before?

[skipper]

If you didn't consent and it hurt you which I'm sure it did if you weren't ready and willing, I'd kick his butt out the door pronto. I'm sorry, but that was no accident. Yeah, maybe the initial contact could have been an accident, but not if he continued. That was assault and assault is a crime. You could have him arrested. If he hurt you before, get rid of him and, if necessary, get a restraining order.

That is a place that takes tremendous trust and care and a very intimate invitation. He should know that and if he doesn't, you shouldn't be with him. There are a lot of caring guys where he came from.

[Steph33]

Dump him like the trash on your way to file charges

[Hopeless Dork]

Anal sex takes a lot of patience on the guys part and lubricant, getting you ready its a huge ordeal - him thinking he can just poke it in and plug away in there without your consent, without you being relaxed without necessary readying shows hes at the very least a complete moron and at the very worst a rapist. Either way you don't need that in your life. What he did sounds like a bad prison movie not something one does to the person they love (unless of course its part of something they decide ahead of time to do).

[WildChild]

Actually it's not that big a deal for everyone. But Nothing sexual should be forced or without consent.