[zackstaco]

im a guy
im 14
i like to masterbate
but i streach out when i do
it sucks cus when i dont it dosent feel good
women are smarter then men (in my book)
so any ideas i dont want to embaress my self with my new GF you know

[Guest]

um....lil guy,i dont think its appropriate for us responsible adults to be speaking to a 14 yr old about that kinda stuff...i would ask your dad.good luck

[WildChild]

Hi Zack,
If you are old enough to ask I think you're old enough to get a serious answer. I'm not sure I understand what you mean by you, "Stretch out"? Most guys seem to masterbate pretty similarly but lots have some little something that makes it better for them. Are you sexually active with your gf or are keeping it at making out?

[zackstaco]

right now its just making out

[skipper]

Uh, KFKitty, masturbation is not something guys like talking about with our dads. "Hey Dad, I was wacking off last nite and my blls got real tight, is that normal?" No, I don't see that happening. Now really, did you discuss your masturbation with your mom and dad?

This is a great forum with knowledgeble, intelligent people and this is as good a place as any to post a question regarding sexual health for any sexually active individual. And isn't the OP right when he notes that women are smarter than men? My thoughts anyway.

What the heck does 'stretch out' mean?

[sourpuss]

I'm assuming that he's saying that he's laying down with his legs out? no?

[Little]

The Children's Online Privacy Protection Act (COPPA) is built into vBulletin's registration, but it only extends to minors under 13. Otherwise, we extend our help and knowledge to people of any age. As skipper pointed out, minors often have no outlet for their questions because of strained relations with their parents and other authority figures. While it's possible to encounter incorrect or even harmful information on the internet, the moderation team and I do our best to keep that out and nurture an informative and respectful environment here at WH. While in a perfect world every 14-year-old could ask his parents about his sexual worries, we do not live in a perfect world.
The OP certainly isn't right though when he says women are smarter than men. The WH site is more active than MH, but sucking up to women doesn't get you any brownie point around here
I wish I could help answer your question, but like the other posters I'm not quite sure what you mean by "stretching out." But your masturbation technique is your own and you don't necessarily have to share it with a girlfriend or anyone else. While developing your sexuality, it is probably best that you make it a private affair and not involve others, who might intentionally or unintentionally harm you.
If you feel like you're "dependent" on one type of masturbation, the common advice is to stop masturbating for an extended amount of time, say a week or month, and then try different methods when you start again.

[mewhenim]

Aside from also not understanding what you mean by stretching out, I guess it would also depend on what you are planning on doing with your girlfriend.

[Guest]

Uh, KFKitty, masturbation is not something guys like talking about with our dads. "Hey Dad, I was wacking off last nite and my blls got real tight, is that normal?" No, I don't see that happening. Now really, did you discuss your masturbation with your mom and dad?

This is a great forum with knowledgeble, intelligent people and this is as good a place as any to post a question regarding sexual health for any sexually active individual. And isn't the OP right when he notes that women are smarter than men? My thoughts anyway.

What the heck does 'stretch out' mean?

really? where did kids go before the internet when they had sex questions? whats the point of having a father figure if you cant discuss such questions with him? i am not bashing him for asking,i am however stating that whoever gets into this subject with him,use caution in what they say due to his age.

[Richard S]

Try not to worry about it. It's always going to be different with a girl no matter what. You get used to it. So does she.

I took guts for you to post here. Good luck with everything.