[golden_nemesis]

I was reading an old thread about how often people in a relationship have sex, and it got me to wondering how people separate how many times.

For instance, if you were to have a continuous session for say an hour, then cuddle naked for a while, maybe 30 minutes or so, then go at it for another hour, is that having sex two times or one? I personally can't make up my mind. Is it considered one session as long as you stay naked? So if you threw on a bathrobe and went to get the morning paper, then got down and dirty again, would that be enough to separate it into two sessions?

Yes, silly question, deserves some silly answers. Thought it sounded like a fun topic.

What's your criteria?

[Hopeless Dork]

Hmmm good point, I am sure some people could quite easily meet that 3-4 times per week quota in an hour:P I'd consider a session a day actually unless it was seperated by many hours for example in the morning then later that night. If there was sleep inbetween or a significant physical distance for several hours its a brand new session in my opinion. However I wouldn't count individual orgasms as their own seperate session.

[moya angel]

i always wondered too but i count each time u stop for more than half and hour

[skipper]

I count it as how many times the guy orgasms. If we went by how many times a woman orgasms, the average couple probably has sex like 3 dozen times a week! At least for you multi orgasmic gals.

[SinisterUrge]

When groping, biting, scratching, rubbing, pushing, pulling, thrusting, bouncing, and swinging stop, its over. Having sex, smoking a cigarette, and having more sex would be having sex twice.

Having sex, the man cumming, him going down on you immediately after until he's hard again and more sex would be having sex once (awesome sex once).

[lovemyself1]

i think since women can orgasm multiple times... i would base it on how many times he orgasms. if he does twice...thats two sessions. so on and so on.... happy sessions....

[skipper]

When groping, biting, scratching, rubbing, pushing, pulling, thrusting, bouncing, and swinging stop, its over. Having sex, smoking a cigarette, and having more sex would be having sex twice.

Having sex, the man cumming, him going down on you immediately after until he's hard again and more sex would be having sex once (awesome sex once).

And your cat says, "And you call me an animal?"

[Steph33]

If we do it and my BF then gets out of bed to get me a glass of water and falls because his legs temporarily don't work, that's one time.

I count his release as 1 time for HIM, since it takes a rest or nap before he can release again. Between him being able to release again, he can get me off several times orally. Guess we need to figure some type of math equation to decide how many times a day we "formally" do it.

The few days in a given month that we both don't get off are either my 3 day period (he'd rather wait till I can get off too though I always offer to help him) or when he just feels like getting me off orally without a release for himself.

For us it's not so much how often, but to never leave each other stressed or wanting. If one needs, the other gives, and 99% of the time we both get off in the session. There is no masturbating needed in our relationship, unless we do it to each other or one asks the other to watch.