[ItsASecret]

Next time he says that and you are horny, slink up to him, whisper in his ear 'are you sure?', unzip his pants and start working on him either with your hands or mouth or both. I'll give you 99 to 1 odds, he will find new found strength. Men are easily seduced.

I have just played with him, and kissed his neck and everything (the thought of him watching me while I'm going down on him is rather gross so I avoid doing that in visible sitations) but there are times when he is more interested in watching hockey or whatever comedy program is on instead so I give up. That hurts, but in all fairness he will be all snuggly, give backrubs, and kissing my neck some nights and yet I will not be in the mood so its the same thing. I just need to be more assertive I guess.

[Inmydreams]

Wow you girls on here are hot lol!

[OlikTver]

wow

OK, I feel better now, a lot of women initiate sex, I thought I was a freak LOL

[fireman's_wife]

Lately i have initiate sex and i have to tell you that i find my hubby performs 100% better when i do then when i dont.... I have found that my and the hubby's sexlife is becomming more off the wall when i initiate it .. I guess he gets turned on more when i do ....

[Steph33]

We were both working on our computers last night in different areas of the apartment, him for about 8 hours straight. I e-mailed him a close up shot with our digital camera of my legs spread and no panties with the caption "Needs your attention NOW." He tripped and almost fell running to my computer area. It doesn't take much to get him going but surprise works 100% of the time. Had to get in his PC and delete it today or it would be his wallpaper for a month (it was already there). My nieces visiting 2 days next week and no doubt they'd have seen it.

[SFDad]

Now, my wife initiates sex almost exclusively. but this is years into a relationship, after a child and through several issues. Basically, I gave up on initiating sex because the odds were poor for success. All too often there too many subtle(or not so subtle) signals that just would irritate me or turn me off.

So I pretty much let my wife initiate sex- well at least to the point of crawling in bed without pajamas. Bed without pajamas tends to lead to sex for the most part.