[SadFrigidGirl]

Okay, one night I pulled out my old sex toys and got my slimline dildo out, and penetrated myself with it-instead of putting pressure on the dildo down, I put pressure on it UP, and I felt PLEASURE, from it. Although, it felt like I was hitting my bladder, it still felt good.

Then I got my bigger dildo, and got some pillows so I can elevate myself upwards, while it hurt like during entry,once I relaxed, I put the dildo upwards and it felt like really pleasureable pressure although I cannot orgasm from it.

So I am capable of feeling pleasure during penetration! It was just a matter of the angle. I wonder why my ex didn't know that the penis shouldn't go down towards my rectum (it felt like i was going to have a bowel movement during sex) but that he should have angled it upwards.

Now, all I need is a boyfriend!

[golden_nemesis]

Well my dear, sounds like you have discovered the wonders of the G-spot. It is typically located on the front wall of the vagina, a couple knuckles deep. If your ex was angling toward the rear of your vagina, I am not surprised you received little pleasure from penetration. I haven't been able to induce a G-spot only orgasm, but if I throw in some clitoral stimulation I go through the roof, hello orgasm city.

Yes, having a man to help out is very, very nice, but in the meantime keep exploring what works for you, so you'll have tricks to show your new beau when he comes along.

[WildChild]

LOL Glad to hear this, you just keep experimenting!

[Talitha]

Lol, awesome.

[Hopeless Dork]

I found my gspot 10 years ago in an online chatroom lol. And my orgasms have never been the same since . Better, so so so much better.

[amaranthine]

Your little story here reminded me of one I read in The Vagina Monologues a couple months back. It was the one about a woman who finally finally figured out how to use her clit to get an orgasm. I'd recommend the book to anyone, really.

[SadFrigidGirl]

Thanks for the responses

I wish I would have known this sooner. Why didn't the guy know that his penis should go up instead of down towards the rectum??

Anyway, was I hitting my gspot or just my bladder? it felt good but also like I had to pee

[rcoreyus]

Men aren't taught this sort of thing any more than women are. Also of course different people like different things, but a lot of women do enjoy Gspot stimulation.

I wish I would have known this sooner. Why didn't the guy know that his penis should go up instead of down towards the rectum??

[Richard S]

Thanks for the responses

I wish I would have known this sooner. Why didn't the guy know that his penis should go up instead of down towards the rectum??

Anyway, was I hitting my gspot or just my bladder? it felt good but also like I had to pee

Hmm... This is getting into personal territory. During my single days I had women excuse themselves to go pee, one girl told me point-blank that I was bigger than her regular BF and she would need to take a bathroom break before we continued. (Gotta love those moments of truth.) It's not just size, it the angle, the curvature, how the two of you fit together. So, you don't need to feel like there's anything unusual about that.