[Miya]

If it's just clothing then the guy can wear his own boxers, even get silk ones if he wants. Why does it have to be women's clothing?

Because really they, or anyone, like us are free to wear whatever they choose to wear and I don't really think it's anyone's place to make them feel bad about it. As I said, it's really just fabric. Guess that's just how I think. No offense intended...just responding. (seems like I can ruffle peoples feathers)

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Because really they, or anyone, like us are free to wear whatever they choose to wear and I don't really think it's anyone's place to make them feel bad about it. As I said, it's really just fabric. Guess that's just how I think. No offense intended...just responding. (seems like I can ruffle peoples feathers)

Nightqueen, it may not be your cup of tea but that's called choice

The fact is that this gentleman's wife doesn't mind at all and I think that's all that matters really, he's not hiding it from her at all, where other's do.

All types of fetishes are real and a person has the right to be themselves as Miya has stated.

Sure, I think I asked him if it would feel the same, wearing silk boxer shorts and the likes but it's not about that...

It's about the totality of it all. And, as i said, if his wife is okay then who are we to judge? He's just asking what we think and some will say ok and other's will say no way.

It's a matter of choice and how we think as individuals.

CW

[LanaBear]

I'll admit, it's not something that would float my boat, but to each there own... As we've discovered in The Lounge, everyone's got something odd about them. lol

[SinisterUrge]

My question to you is how would a woman go about meeting/finding a man who's into this kind of thing? After all, it's not exactly something you'd ask on a date. And what makes this even more complicated is my religious affiliation because how in the world could I make it known in the community (or not known) that this is one of the things that I secretly desire in a marriage?

To get what you desire you have three clear paths
1. Date people and hope they're into what you're into. For most people this system is perfectly fine and most people find what they're looking for. If you have a sexual fixation chances are good you'll never get what you desire with serial monogamy.

2. Look for people into your fixation, and then date among them exclusively. Yes, nobody wants to be the person to post the "Looking for men in women's underwear" ad on Craigslist (or backpage), but thats probably your best bet. Downside: You may need to expand your dating pool into other states.

3. Trade-off. You might be able to talk Joe Schmoe into wearing lace panties provided you do something for him. Upside: Every local has perverts, you might not have to move. Downside: Who knows what Joe is going to expect in return; toe sucking, brown showers, MMF threeways?

PS: What religion actually checks your underwear?

[SinisterUrge]

i'd be terrified that i'd end up on the operating room table after a car accident and,well, you can probably guess the humiliation..next thing you know your story is featured on an episode of "grey's anatomy"..

1. I'm fairly certain what underwear I'm wearing, or not wearing, is not even in the top 600 things I think about after a serious vehicle accident (speaking from experience "paralysis" is the number one answer)

2. Ask your radiologist what the weirdest thing he/she ever X-ray'd was that was stuck up somebody's butt. Sure women's underwear is kinda kinky, but if guy in bed 24 has a vintage Planet of the Apes Dr. Zaius stuck where the sun don't shine, you aren't even worth talking-about at the water cooler. (and every Hospital show has already done the crossdresser, or the cosplay, or the bondage guy....... its old news in TV).

[lovebites]

Hey,

I think it's definitely fine for you to wear womens underwear. At first, when I found out my boyf liked it, and said he'd feel sexier in my stuff, I must admit, I was a little weirded out. But you must understand, he's my first. So now that I'm open to it more, I definitely understand why you like it. Men's underwear are SO boring looking and they just look like short , shorts so obviously ours, as in womens, lingerie is way more comfy! And I love VS too! Don't worry about sales clerks! Just tell them it's for your girlfriend, cause some ppl are not as open you know? Kudos to you for not being afraid and for helping me see once again that it's totally okay for men to wear womens lingerie!

[caterpillar79]

I can relate to that. I have a similar story (which I couldn't tell here), but boy, it was hilarious!

I want to see my man wear my underwear. I bet he'll look so hot that it won't stay on him for long!

I have worn my man's boxers, too (didn't stay on for long either). I like to play "dress up/or none" with my man, and since we both enjoy this game, underwear are included in the game. He also wears some of my nighties and twirls around with it. He's so adorable!

So OP, it is all about preference. If you like it, no one should stop you.

[ebon_valentine]

going along with the crowd for the most part, i don't have a problem with it. i mean....i don't know how i would react to seeing "my guy" (don't have one) parading around in my undies but i don't think i would like it, personally. i think the thing that bothers me is that you wear lacy pink undies =O call me sexist but i think that's a tad strange. at least like...out. in the bedroom, whatever. but i would never ever want my man to leave the house wearing something so OBVIOUSLY for chicks. black ladies undies, whatever. but pink lace pushes the envelope for me. maybe because i really hate pink haha.

[Lisa35]

Men wearing panties is o.k.

I think it is perfectly o.k. and in my own case my husband loves to wear womens lingerie also. I discovered it when I walked in on him and saw him holding a pair of MY panties up to himself. At first I was furious and felt violated. We had been dating about two years at that point. I wanted to break up but he begged me to at least hear him out. He explained his feelings (that are very similar to yours). To make a long story short I decided to accept him as he is and give it a chance and since then we have learned to make it part of our relationship.He is VERY much a man but does have a special " emotional" identity with women. He wears panties and short slips or pettipants under his regular clothes, and wears nylon night clothes to bed. I have bought things for him and we have gone shopping together. Honestly, I find it sexy and fun. My advice is to accept yourself and be honest with your partner from the beginning. You may be surprised ! Good luck!

[attagirl28]

I have to totally agree with BD, in my personal preference: I like the opposite sex to be well... opposite , I don't want to compete with my bf for who has a sexier lingerie drawer BUT that being said, love is love is love. If the man I loved told me that he liked to do that, and I could believe that he still wanted and loved me just as much as always .. I wouldn't mind it one bit.

If i saw my man weraing my undies i would first (no effense intend) laugh really hard. I definetly think its weird but i wouldn't really have a problem with it. In fact i'm curious to see what that would look like. But i would never let him wear mine beacause i'm not sure how they would fit me afterwards and i already had to deal with stretched out socks cause of my brother. I wouldn't want to deal with stretched out undies with my bf.