[Sash]

Thanks guys..
This morning he appologised to me and said he is sorry it makes me upset.. I said I was not upset just frustrated.. he says sorry and that he is not a machine.. (in a nice way) while giving me hugs and kisses.. I am so in love with him and he is my angel but I guess I am just going to have to find a way to live with the frustration .. as he know the effect it has on me but seems unable to lift his drive and energy for love making..
I am just sad that we will miss that experimental exciting fun love making sharing deeply and going to those amazing sensual sexual 'places' together. for me it even goes as far as being a spiritual thing .. a healing thing but this pent us sexual energy is really causing a negative affect on me.. I am not living at home for the last few weeks and my toys are not with me this could also be why I am feeling extra freaked out as I have not had the time to play or had a quick visit with my BOB ( battery operated Boyfriend) ...

Rcoreyus... I know how you feel.. I am in love with him but it is just this stupid Sexual frustration I need to master or some thing..
thanks for your support feel sbetter to talk about it..
Have a good day guys

[funkylady24]

its the same for me

I am going through the same thing. Iam 10 years younger than my husband and when we first got together we had the whole sex every night and it was awesome. That was 5 years ago and 2 kids later and I have more of a sex drive then ever. When we do it its amazing and wonderful but like you i am bored. I have talked to him about it but it has blown up in my face as he just said its not all about sex you know. witch to me means its when i want it not you. Its so horrible to feel this way and I hate it but it is so frustrating i feel your pain.

[panasonic]

Good lord !

You're Husbands -- are My Wife !!!

I went seven years with no sex ...

SEVEN - yes - seven !!!

She has no interest in sex ...
and IF we do anything - it's dull. the most I get is hand job.
what fun - stuff I can do myself ...oh boy !! .. ?
but I'm trying ... very hard to fix my situation.

[Sash]

Sorted

Hi there
Thanks everyone for your support..
this is the last time I will be posting to this forum.
My husband saw the post in history and there were some eruptions..
All in all it has been a fantastic thing now that things have calmed down but I did say i would not go onto a forum again.

Just want to say we had the most amazing chats and ......... after things calmed down... There is a better understanding between us now and we have learned more about eachother from this.

Thanks again for the support.
And hope that all you out there having a hard time with this will find a way through.. Communication is the key...

[rcoreyus]

Anyone posting from a computer that other people (especially their spouse) can access, should be sure you know how to clear the history.

He should not have used the history to find old posts - I am strongly opposed to spying in relationships.

[37357]

Married sex

I am always the one making the moves.. Im getting a bit frustrated with being rejected .. I think me making the moves puts him off .. so im trying to slack it off.. but neither way helps.. I love him I just want to make exciting, sensual .. loving passionate.. experimental loving and sex with him

I am a man living in scotland so I probably shouldn't be posting on a women's forum but I cannot believe what I am reading on this thread it could be my married life it is a carbon copy I had to say something....
I try and with my wife I adore her she is sweet loving and I would be lost without her
But in the bed there is almost nil things may sound rude but please do not take it that way.
I am always asking if there are things I can do or wear for her girls have lacy panties stockings that kind of thing I want to do something for her.
My wife doesn't even put stockings on.
She gives me oral sex sometimes and I want to do that for I love doing that but say 30 seconds or so she doesn't like it she gets bored with it and I am gentle and soft when I am
Down at her vagina.
We can go to bed together and I can lie there for an hour or 2 and eventually have to go to the bathroom and well you know.....
We have the little vibrator tingly gel stuff for putting on her clit the **** lick nothing. Gets used it is driving me nuts......

[Fallen1]

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