[hippiechick2405]

Carmen, I think you need to just show enthusiasm and he will be happy. I'm sure he senses that you are not into it, so therefore he just wants to hurry up and get off. It's difficult to be on the same "sex wave length" as your SO. One month, my husband is attached to my butt at all times trying to pretty much hump my leg and I am just not feeling it as much. Then, the next month, I am insatiable and am almost begging him for it. It's crazy. If we ever get in sync, I will be one happy woman!

[WildChild]

I disagree. I have been in a relationship for 6 years now. I could have sex twice a day. My g/f only wants sex maybe twice a week. So sad.

Ah, you just proved my point. She's not that into it, you want it way more. We have so many women on here (self included) who want it and are ready pretty much all the time - the men just aren't that eager. It seems the sex is controlled by the one who wants it least.

Bet if your gf was ripping your clothes off twice a day, you'd love it for a week or two and then knowing you can have it anytime you'd cool off. The man in my life did it, so have a lot of other' we've heard about here.

[Fallen1]

Ah, you just proved my point. She's not that into it, you want it way more.

I was thinking the same thing.

[Hopeless Dork]

So true, so true, so true Guys that are not in relationships or are in ones that the women isn't so into sex are appauled at the notion of at any point in their life turning down a blow job or sex that was being offered up at any time or place BUT... when they are in the situation of someone constantly wanting them, they DO seem to chill out, they just do.

My conclusion is men are no more, or less sexual than women... that we all seem to sort of meet in the middle somewhere. Men wanting it more aggressively when they are unsure its going to happen, and women wanting it more aggressively when they know they have one safe committed partner that knows which buttons she needs pushed.

Probably a big reason a lot of men cheat. First conclusion people jump to when a man cheats is well maybe his wife isn't doing her job... oh some cheat in spite of that , probably to get that good old caveman chase back. Evolve already dog gone it!!!! lol

[shweedart]

Maybe its time we played hard to get

[mr.mansview]

Maybe its time we played hard to get

you may be on to something sweedart..if you played "hard to get": he may "get to hard"..

[shweedart]

Do you not want to have sex...as often? in general?