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  • TTrix
    Member
    • Mar 2009
    • 11

    "dirty 30's"......I love that!
    I wish I had the body I had at 19, but that's it. Dated a lot of idiots and certainly never had orgasms with any of them. My twenties were crazy, but far from sexually fulfilling to say the least.
    By my mid thirties I was in a dead end relationship with very little sex for years, got out and have a great guy now. I also feel like I have the hormones of a 16 yr old boy! Part of it probably comes from being a lot more settled in my life and not having the insecurities I had before. Good to know it might last into my 40's and 50's.....my man is 43, he is wonderful but jokingly says that I'm going to kill him one of these days Well at least he will be happy when he goes lol

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    • Steph33
      Veteran Member
      • Jan 2009
      • 249

      Originally posted by TTrix
      "dirty 30's"......I love that!
      I wish I had the body I had at 19, but that's it. Dated a lot of idiots and certainly never had orgasms with any of them. My twenties were crazy, but far from sexually fulfilling to say the least.
      By my mid thirties I was in a dead end relationship with very little sex for years, got out and have a great guy now. I also feel like I have the hormones of a 16 yr old boy! Part of it probably comes from being a lot more settled in my life and not having the insecurities I had before. Good to know it might last into my 40's and 50's.....my man is 43, he is wonderful but jokingly says that I'm going to kill him one of these days Well at least he will be happy when he goes lol
      I'll be 34 soon and my guy is 11 years older. I had OK sex before at times in past relationships, but was never this compatable. No games, no BS, no withholding when either is horny, and NEVER boring. I know all he likes and the same in reverse, and we both like all kinds of different stuff.

      We have no kids (don't want) but one of out cats is a male so we celebrate "Father's Day" today. I totally assaulted my guy 4 times today with all I had that he likes physically, verbally, and in 4 clothing sets he likes. Each time till he was screaming and begging by the time he got off. It's 8:45 and he went to bed a couple hours ago after the "4th round", telling me to check on him once and awhile to make sure he isn't dead.

      I just woke him up to tell him in the next 10 years my sex drive will go up a lot. I love to mess with him and he's such a sweetie. He just looked at me totally physically spent and said "If I try to cum again now, nothing will come out but dust."

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      • Tina Lee
        Member
        • Jun 2009
        • 75

        I am 41 years old. When I was younger I was very shy, and a late bloomer.

        In my 20's & 30's, I had insecurities, and wasn't really into sex.

        But now that my hormones are raging, I don't know what's gotten into me!
        --I'm exercising, and losing weight.
        --I am using Jergens body lotion to get an all over body tan
        --I know who I am as a woman, and am feeling alot more secure about myself.
        --I am no longer shy in the bedroom now. I'm alot more open to experiement with toys, & letting my husband know what turns me on.

        My husband barely gets through the door, and he's gettin' laid!

        So far the 40's have been my fave, please tell me the 50's only get better!!
        "To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."

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        • WildChild
          Banned
          • Sep 2008
          • 14142

          They get better!

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          • happy ending
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2008
            • 869

            i love my nortie forties. i had my first orgasm EVER at 43, now at 45 it does still get better. having a great partner helps, but a lot of it is confidence and lack of embarassment in asking for what you want. its great!

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            • WildChild
              Banned
              • Sep 2008
              • 14142

              The only problem with this is that the men seem to really slow down as they get older. Unless you are fortunate to have one who likes to make the effort to get you off even if he doesn't, you are kind of SOL.

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              • Steph33
                Veteran Member
                • Jan 2009
                • 249

                Originally posted by WildChild
                The only problem with this is that the men seem to really slow down as they get older. Unless you are fortunate to have one who likes to make the effort to get you off even if he doesn't, you are kind of SOL.
                Shop around for a cannibal in his 40s who loves giving oral sex, then guard him with your life

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                • happy ending
                  Veteran Member
                  • Oct 2008
                  • 869

                  i guess i am super lucky then, my man loves getting me off, in fact if i am horny and just mention it, he gets very excited and is very quickly in the mood. he seems to think i am the worlds best lover and incredibly sexy etc. i am truly blessed!

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                  • mr.mansview
                    Veteran Member
                    • Aug 2007
                    • 1173

                    Originally posted by Steph33
                    Shop around for a cannibal in his 40s who loves giving oral sex, then guard him with your life
                    LOL, but good advice steph
                    a smart man learns from his mistakes..a wise man learns from the mistakes of others..

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                    • Steph33
                      Veteran Member
                      • Jan 2009
                      • 249

                      Originally posted by happy ending
                      i guess i am super lucky then, my man loves getting me off, in fact if i am horny and just mention it, he gets very excited and is very quickly in the mood. he seems to think i am the worlds best lover and incredibly sexy etc. i am truly blessed!
                      Me too, mine lives to give me oral and given the choice of just that or just intercourse he's down there ASAP. And he's really good at it too. Hearing how much he's enjoys it and it excites him makes me get off quick and more than once when he keeps going.

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