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When I turned 40, my sex drive almost dried up. I was a bit overweight and didn't feel good about myself. I friend said she had started to work out at the Y and asked if I wanted to join her. I lost 20 lbs and started to feel good about myself again. The sex drive came back with a vengence. Hubby likes it just fine, but we do find that we enjoy slow sex much more these days, but once in a while, a quicky doggy style is GREAT!
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Sex Drive through the roof at 40!
Chinadoll and Lizzy I hear you both, its been a year since Ive had sex, I jsut turned 40 a month ago, and Im like horny all the time now. At first I thought I was just going crazy becauase its been a while and I have this young man thats likes to flirt with me so I thought I was just horney (well I am, but this is different I take like I dont know how many showers just to tone my sex drive down). But since reading this forum I see that Im not going crazy.... Thanks!Comment
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I think Im a Cougar!
I just turned 40 a month ago and Im really starting to look at younger men more than I use to. Between ages 24-36, and the young men approach me
1st, thats what really got me into younger men. Why should I feel guiltly about dating younger men when older men having been dating younger women since the beginning of time. No Im going to enjoy dating my younger men and having a good time with them. Im a Cougar and I love it!Comment
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