[blondie621]

Ive been dating my bf for few months and last night he was over. We were going to have sex but am on my period so decided to have anal sex... anyway after we were done, there was something left on him i am so ashamed! i practically threw the poor guy out the door
what can i do?

[stressed]

You should take it easy, these things happen. Anal sex has its side effects but it's not such a big deal. You two are supposedly close enough to have sex so if he's not understanding then he shouldn't have been having sex with you in the first place.

[blondie621]

hmm i guess its just not what i expected from the night am gonna try to laugh about it...

[stressed]

Of course! No worries at all

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Second that...

[Swiftus]

he's probably so glad that he got anal that he will not worry about it.

[Hopeless Dork]

There is always the possibility of stains or wierd unsexy things happening after spontanious anal sex. He put his penis into the area where that stuff is contained, you should not feel bad and he should be very understanding and comforting. Thats like sticking your finger up someone elses nose and finding a booger, it really should not be a shock lol.

To avoid it in the future though, don't let him in back there unless you have been to the bathroom within a couple of hourse before (sadly even then something like that is a possiblity but the odds are in your favor that you will have a cleaner experience) some people use enema things but for me anal sex is about timing.

If I know Ive used the bathroom and showered within a couple of hours of us having sex, I am comfortable with doing it on the rare occasion that we are in the mood. If I havn't I just take that option off the menu which is no biggie since its a specialty item anyway

Don't feel bad, at all. The first time I had anal sex I farted uncontrollably after the act, it was a lesson in humility that is for sure. I was mortified, my bf laughed it off later when I explained how embarrased I was. When it happened he did the respectable thing and just ignored it since I did.

Sex is messy, anal sex can be embarrasingly messy but with some precautions in place you can limit the bad experiences but hey he knew that opening wasn't made for growing flowers, I am sure he doesn't think bad of you at all.

[SinisterUrge]

Honestly, what did you think was going to happen? (Is there a santorum removal fairy I'm not familiar with?)

[blondie621]

i didnt think that'd happen...certainly never has before! think im gonna impose a few weeks of celibacy

[Inmydreams]

Does anyone here actually ENJOY anal? I HATE HATE HATE it. Horrible experience. I know guys like it because it is so tight in there. But do any of the girls here that do this actually get anything out of it - I mean can it actually FEEL GOOD? Interested to know.