[Toby.W]

Hello all,

It is my first time on here I joined so I could ask some questions help some people..and also get your comments on things I've been doing.

Recently, I've been exparamenting with musterbating. Only a month ago I started. It was good, I liked it. But..

I've stopped recently cuase' I feel guilty doing it.

Is this a feeling you get when you first start?? Or is just me?? Cuase' I hear all these stories liek peopleing saying "It is foul don't do it..".

Please,comment and tell me or answer my question...

Is it normal to feel a li'l guilty when you first start musterbating?? Or is it me?

Thank you

[Na-Na]

Depends on how you were raised, really. In my family, we were taught to see it as a completely natural thing, and encouraged to enjoy it if we found the time/empty space. Others do feel guilty about it. I've personally talked to a good number of women on the subject. A number of them did feel guilty when they first started, but really there's nothing foul about it. And if it's penetration that makes you feel guilty, there are ways to pleasure yourself without.

[Toby.W]

Depends on how you were raised, really. In my family, we were taught to see it as a completely natural thing, and encouraged to enjoy it if we found the time/empty space. Others do feel guilty about it. I've personally talked to a good number of women on the subject. A number of them did feel guilty when they first started, but really there's nothing foul about it. And if it's penetration that makes you feel guilty, there are ways to pleasure yourself without.

Thanks, In my family we diden't even talk about it.I found out about musterbating via the wonders of the internet. Actully, I just feel guilty sometimes I don't know why, I guess it's me!

[Sandra_does]

Hi Toby...

There will always be a pro and con insight with regard to masturbation while yet the choice should be yours alone. You don't need that little bud to produce babies and so it is quite obvious it's meant for pleasurable love as well, is it not...?

Doing or not doing seems inflamed with ideas of the so-called moral majority or fanatical religious rites while yet the real influence should be with regards to your physical and mental health and not those squealing loudly to tell you what and how to do with your body...

The important thing to be aware of is that over-indulgence of masturbation "WILL" strain your nervous system and do so in areas of your health and behavior that you would not expect. As the pleasure of release feels so well, masturbation is easily addictive even to the point that it...and variables of...offer more pleasure than that of sharing a man...!

How often to masturbate varies amongst people and any specific number of times daily given by anyone would not be wise to accept as normal for everyone. I would not suggest any number of times but would only suggest that it does not become a habit more important than having a relationship...

Be careful...be aware...!

Sandra...

[BETHANIE]

Hi toby...
My opinion on this is that yu do feel weird at 1st that's how i was... I started very very young ...my parents never 2 this day have never spoken 2 me about masterbation but i find it very interesting& pleasurable... I've read online& in books that masterbating is very healthy& shuld b done by every1 at least 3 time a week or sumthing like that... Although your parents never spoke yu about it its very natural... Dnt feel bad

[Toby.W]

Thanks,Ill did it the 1st time at a young age it felt good but I felt giulty right after.I still do it but not as much maybe once a week or twice depends.Thanks,my mum said something abut musterbating saying it's naturel to have feelings like that but that was like 2 years ago.

Bye

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hey sweet.

Can I just say, there is the oldern world and the new age world.

For sure some think it's horrid but it's not really if you think about it, it gets you to know what you like and don't like, make sense?

Other people's opinions are just that... That is how they look at it...

You can be your own person and grow to be who you want and in that, what you want to believe..

That's what life is alll about.

CW

[needanswer99]

take sandra advice

I totally agree what ..Sandra_does.... mentioned.
take her advice.

infact everybody would agree with her....

just to add;;;

that doing it sometimes is not "guilt-worthy."

but "too much" would be trouble-some .........for gettting real relationship with your boy friend or husband in future.
i think 3 times every week is too much.....it is my opinion.

and by the way..."too much" in everything is bad ...
like too much desire for food ends in obesity or other diseases...lol

[nightqueen]

Masterbation is good and normal. Enjoy yourself!

[SinisterUrge]

Is masturbation a biblical sin? No, the only instance of masturbation in the bible, Genesis 38:6-9 involves God killing Onan because he didn't knock-up his brother's wife. So quite literally, masturbation is a sin punishable by immediate death if you do it instead of knocking-up your brother's wife.

This is the same Bible that promotes slavery and infanticide. Which really makes you wonder if anybody has ever actually read the book.