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  • angelk08
    Junior Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 1

    shower sex

    So my boyfriend and I love to shower together but we can't figure out how to have sex in the shower. I'm 5'4" and he is 5'11" he is quite talller we are not like size 2 people and not very flexible any ideas
  • Na-Na
    Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 60

    Ah the dilemmas of shower sex. My ex and I had a similar problem. He was 6'4, I'm 5'7, and I was quite a bit bigger than him. Being taller than your man is beneficial in this particular situation.

    Your shower is going to have a lot to do with the different things you can try. We had a reallly big shower (seriously, it was the size of a master bath. No idea why it was designed that way), so we were able to try a lot of different things. I'd suggest though, for a smaller shower, to try propping up against the wall. If you can get a leg up, rest one on his hip. He should be able to bend slightly at the knees for penetration. If you've got a place to use as a hand hold, you can use it to help push yourself up a little. If this one doesn't work, consider doing it on your knees. I'd suggest a lot of foreplay first, if you go for that one though. Showers aren't exactly cushioned, and it can start to hurt after a while.

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    • GlitterAndStuds
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2009
      • 1182

      Showers are tricky and most stuff is really uncomfortable when done in there. My boyfriend and I have found though, that the easiest way to do it is for you to lean forward with your hands against the wall and he gets behind you. It's awesome. Doing it while lying down on the floor of the tub is probably not going to work and will get uncomfy really fast.
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      • Ahryin
        Veteran Member
        • Jul 2009
        • 856

        Ever think about bringing a stool in the shower with you?
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        • Chantalemma
          Senior Member
          • Apr 2009
          • 171

          Originally posted by GlitterAndStuds
          My boyfriend and I have found though, that the easiest way to do it is for you to lean forward with your hands against the wall and he gets behind you.
          I would have to say that is my way of doing things. I am 6'3" and he is 6'4" but still it works for any height smaller or bigger. Try it and let us know.

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          • GlitterAndStuds
            Veteran Member
            • Jul 2009
            • 1182

            It's definitely the easiest if there's a height difference. Plus with all that limited space in a shower...eek!
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            • LanaBear
              Veteran Member
              • Jul 2009
              • 8373

              Originally posted by GlitterAndStuds
              Showers are tricky and most stuff is really uncomfortable when done in there. My boyfriend and I have found though, that the easiest way to do it is for you to lean forward with your hands against the wall and he gets behind you. It's awesome. Doing it while lying down on the floor of the tub is probably not going to work and will get uncomfy really fast.
              Aahh - my favorite, but there's also not a whole lot of difference in height between the two of us. I'm 5'4" and he's 5'7".

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              • ttaleas0399
                Junior Member
                • Aug 2009
                • 5

                just be careful about using soap. I had a terrible reaction to his soap which lead to several days of unpleasantness.

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                • caterpillar79
                  Veteran Member
                  • Mar 2009
                  • 3895

                  Interesting...tried it, it was quite fun, but risky - of slipping. lol...get a towel and continue it in bed or the couch. LMAO!

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                  • GlitterAndStuds
                    Veteran Member
                    • Jul 2009
                    • 1182

                    Originally posted by caterpillar79
                    Interesting...tried it, it was quite fun, but risky - of slipping. lol...get a towel and continue it in bed or the couch. LMAO!
                    True, it's one of those times where it kind of needs to be kept short, haha
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