[kira]

You've tried lots but have you tried not doing any of that? If you are giving even when he's not then what is the real incentive to give... Tell a guy if he wants to have sex he better learn how to get you interested and all of a sudden he becomes a much more willing student.

As for women wanting to do more cause of guys putting the thoughts in their heads that's a load of bull. You have any idea what went through my head as a teenager? I can tell you I didn't need any help getting my sex drive going or being creative about dealing with it. I've thought up plenty of stuff on my own and then went "hey I bet someone else already thought of that" and went online to find out the best way. If it has to do with sex it's probably been thought of and is on the internet somewhere. I had no brothers and rarely an adult male around the house along with it being considered weird at my school if guys and girls were friends past 6th grade so no one was teaching me anything. I looked up porn out of my own curiosity and I was the one that convinced my first boyfriend we should order a sex toy. I've been doing a good job of further corrupting every guy I've gone out with.

[Guest]

19 years and you give all and he gives nothing?

I am so sorry for you....

I know you say haha but I think you mean ahhh....

It's never too late to say excuse me, i give and you?

CW

Think you've quoted the wrong post here its Theresa who has been with her hubby 19 yrs and needs to spice sex life up not me

[Guest]

Talked until I am blue in the face. Yep the man I love is a roll on roll off ferry! Until recently I accepted the fact that this is the way it should be but something has changed for me and I want and need more. The lack of sexual intimacy is taking its toll on me and I am getting frustrated. Isn't a marriage supposed to be a team effort????

Yes its surpose to be a team effort id be tempted to stop all sex until he listened to what i wanted in bed how often do you have sex by the way??

Is it to much to ask if I want oral or fingering?

Certainly not i love it and my hubby is more than happy to give it to me we take it in turns in pleasing each other which is how it should be id slap a no sex ban on him till its all sorted good luck

[ttaleas0399]

situations do happen

I really don't think about it, but my best friend swears that in certain situations; things happen.

[Theresa]

Yes its surpose to be a team effort id be tempted to stop all sex until he listened to what i wanted in bed how often do you have sex by the way??



Certainly not i love it and my hubby is more than happy to give it to me we take it in turns in pleasing each other which is how it should be id slap a no sex ban on him till its all sorted good luck

I know I shouldn't "hold out" until he gives me what I want but it is tempting. I love giving my DH anything he wants and I think he should do the same for me. And YES - he knows I want more. For some reason he is not doing it.

[Guest]

And YES - he knows I want more. For some reason he is not doing it.

Then he sounds a very selfish lover to me
you need to sit him down and talk to him tell him your not happy.

[shweedart]

I wouldn't say I'm Bi or Bi curious. I'm not interested in both Genders, I like men But thats not to say I wouldn't give a 3some with another woman a go. Sure I would. Dont knock it until you've tried it! I've kissed girls yes but then again I'm not interested in having a girlfriend at all.... soo....I dunno if that counts?

[OG612]

The Kinsey Institute did a very in-depth study of human sexuality back in 1996 (or was it '93?). It was also the first study of it's kind to include women. In the past, women were excluded from these types of studies due to the varying levels of hormones throughout the month.

What their study concluded was that all females are, at a minimum, bi-curious; if not bisexual.

I'm still trying to find that report but no luck so far. When I have more details I'll post them.

OG

[lady15]

definitely

i would love to try to it. i really can't stand females because they are overly dramatic, but lets face it, it would just be hot and fun.

[p3375]

Guess I'll jump out there and blurt it out. I've been attracted to girls ever since becoming sexually aware. Yeah, I like guys too, and wouldn't want to give up having sex w/ them . BUT being together w/ another woman is sooo good! I think of it like cake and ice cream. Both great, but in their own way and one not replacable with the other.
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