[Ahryin]

Ok I can see that...but my dude is well ...lets just leave it at he isn't a finger far from it

[OG612]

As long as your partner doesn't resemble a horse when he takes his pants off, going backdoor should be an option.

I've done this with quite a few women who were willing to explore their bodies in ways they never given a thought about.

As long as your man lubes up (both of you for that matter) and eases in and starts off slow, you'll find it a rather enjoyable experience. I've gone the "dry" route as well and it's not as enjoyable without some serious warm up first. For either partner.

OG

[Ahryin]

OG...maybe if you hypnotized me first...hint hint wink wink nudge nudge... but i'm sure other than that isn't just not going down as to your horse ref....NNNNAAAYYYYY

[OG612]

OG...maybe if you hypnotized me first...hint hint wink wink nudge nudge... but i'm sure other than that isn't just not going down as to your horse ref....NNNNAAAYYYYY

You'd be surprised what you could experience under hypnosis. If you're wanting to try it, drop me a PM and we'll talk.

And if you're saying what I think you are, let's say Mr. Ed isn't in my family tree.

OG

[LanaBear]

Definitely not something you can try and be tense with. But with lots of lube, it's all good...

But like OTYA says, butt play can be "on" too, not just "in"... spanking, kissing, etc...

[OG612]

Let your man bury his tongue in there and watch as your entire body goes off almost instantly!

OG

[WildChild]

We've had a lot of discussion about this before. I've done it lubed and dry, it works either way. I'm fine with it but the LOML decided he doesn't care for it and that's just fine too.

[jr]

I'm no expert butt if you don't like it, you haven't experienced it in the correct manner. Either that or you have some hang up about it being taboo, gross, etc.

The key, in my opinion men, is take your time, go slowly and don't even think about heading in that direction (towards your partner's behind) unitl you have her very relaxed.

The other key? LOTS of lube. Silicone probably works best here due to its slippery staying power, but many people have a fear of using silicone in or on their bodies.

Take your time....when you think you've got her relaxed to the point where you can approach her beautiful backside....take another ______ minutes to completely relax/massage her.

A lot of females have tried it once, had a really bad(painful) experience thanks to some jerk who was in a hurry, so you have to overcome that fear that pops up every time you mention it.

There are more nerve endings in and around the anus then there are in and around the clitoris!!

Go slow, Go slow, Go slow!! Lube, Lube, Lube!! Enjoy!

[Guest]

I... LOVE.. Butt Play..

Ok so before hand.. My girlfriend wasnt very comfortable off the fact I wanted to be lurking around the deep unknown.. The anus.. I explained to her that, its a very big fettish off mine, and through time she became more and more comfortable with it, shes now comfortable with me playing with her backside, rubbing, fingering etc..

If I had it my way I'd love to just tuck right in and take a bite! But I don't think shes comfortable with my mouth being anywhere near there yet.. Though I have kissed her beautiful backside a few times when I caught her off guard

I haven't completley went the full way and done anal yet, due to the fact shes still a bit tight, and not ready to do it yet, because the other week when I was playing with her, I think my fingers cut just slightly inside her backside, so when the lube gets in the cut it stings alot, we're just letting that heal up first.. (I bite my finger nails so, they're a little sharp and ruged I guess.. lol)

At the moment I'm happy with Butt Play, and happy widening her until shes ready

But really, the thought off her backside puts me in a daze, everytime I see it I sit and glare, she looks back and says "Wtf are you doing?" lol.. Bah, I'm easily pleased I guess..

[msfoxy03]

I am still working on it. its not something you can just jump up and do unless your a porn star. your body must be prepared for such an event.