[00betty00]

me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and the sex is good, but we have gotten into a routine, which i feel like is my fault because i can only have an orgasm when we do it doggy style and i stimulate my clit. i want to experience another way to have an orgasm because i feel like the sex could become boring to him, just as it has to me...any suggestions for something new and exciting?

[OG612]

Introduce toys (no vibrators unless they go in the bum). Watch porn. Act out fantasies. Play with yourself in missionary. Have him bury his erection between your breasts (lube up first so your chest doesn't chafe).

Or ... call me! I'll take you through a trance experience and have you soaking your thickest pair of jeans! That's one thing I love about being a hypnotist.

You can orgasm in any position. You only choose to allow yourself to orgasm when he's taking you from behind. I bet you $10,000 I could make you orgasm with just my tongue. And I don't have 10 grand to be playing with!!! That's how confident I am!

If you want a serious orgasm that's not done from behind, then ride him. Break him in half! There are spots right near the cervix (anterior and posterior fornices) that when stimulated can be produce amazing orgasms!

OG

[ItsASecret]

I almost had an orgasm in this position the other night, it made me very excited . For me getting aroused enough to feel those certain 'tingles' where you know an orgasm will eventually happen is extremely difficult. Some positions will just never work, and some always will for certain women. There will never ever be a set in stone way to have an orgasm because everyone is different. You just need to keep trying new stuff until you have an 'ah-ha' moment.

[WildChild]

It's head stuff. Right mood and thinking + appropriate stimulation = orgasm. Something is holding you back, you have to let go of it.

[nightqueen]

I don't always have an orgasm during sex. Usually having sex is like foreplay for me, and I love it! My Dh usually makes me orgasm after he does. Try out all different ways. It will be great!

[SinisterUrge]

I'll take you through a trance experience and have you soaking your thickest pair of jeans! That's one thing I love about being a hypnotist.

This sounds like a very good personal ad on Craigslist.

[OG612]

This sounds like a very good personal ad on Craigslist.

I've offered my services on Craig's List and all I got were spam bots.

OG

[Isabellacat]

I've only had an orgasm doggy style once in my life(he really loved me too). I can't seem to climax unless I'm on top tho.

[Guest]

me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and the sex is good, but we have gotten into a routine, which i feel like is my fault because i can only have an orgasm when we do it doggy style and i stimulate my clit. i want to experience another way to have an orgasm because i feel like the sex could become boring to him, just as it has to me...any suggestions for something new and exciting?

Doggy is the number one favorite position to women. It's not the favorite to all women. There are a lot of women who prefer other positions. But doggy is the most popular in general. Women typically state that they love it that the guy gets in deeper. I of course then point out, if it's a woman who had said size doesn't matter, that deeper indicates it does matter, lol. They then start talking in riddles trying to explain it away what they meant, but not really able to counter. Generally speaking the angle during doggy allows for the cul de sac (located between the bottom vagina wall and anal canal) to be stimulated if she is fully aroused and elastic and he is long enough to push her bottom wall into it. In some unusual cases though the angle created, and his length, and her amount of elasticity, will push her bottom wall such that much pressure is put on the anal canal itself, causing women to poop or fart.

[kate_withers]

Orgasm no matter what

The best way for me to orgasm in any position is for my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me before penetration. He builds me up so much with his mouth and then right before i orgasm he backs down, making me beg for more. He then penetrates me and it doesn't take me long to explode! This has worked in every position we've tried, but I like girl on top the best. You can rub your clit and control the depth at the same time! This method has actually given me multiple orgasms.