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    Missionary Position

    Any tips from the ladies who can reach orgasm through the missionary position without using their hands?

    The first time my girl had an O from intercouse was her lying on the couch and me kneeling in front of her. Haven't been succesful since. Currently, she climbs on top to get hers. We'd both like to try to do it in a different position.

    Yesterday we were doing it missionary at a moderate pace and she said she was getting the clit tingles that eventually led to orgasm, but they plateaud and just sat there. I should note that that was second time we had sex that day....1st session was about 2 hours before and she had gotten off then.

    Any ideas on how to take it over the edge? She doesn't like using her hand cause it gets in the way and she isn't a fan of direct clit stimulation.

    We're thinking about delaying sex for a couple days and trying again when she's really ready to go. She's convinced that she can do it if she concentrates more.

    Thoughts?
  • WildChild
    Banned
    • Sep 2008
    • 14142

    I get off in missionary every time, more readily so than on top. Every woman's body has it own little specialness. Try it with her feet over your shoulders. How about with her on her side, lower leg extended, upper leg bent?

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    • GlitterAndStuds
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2009
      • 1182

      I always get off fairly easily in missionary too. I agree with Wild Child that putting one or both of her legs over your shoulders will make it feel awesome for her. Plus it tightens her up a little, so it'll feel good for you too (you guys seem pretty adventurous though so I'm sure you knew that, haha). That's what usually works for me.

      The thing that works BEST for me though, is when my boyfriend grabs my butt and lifts my hips off the bed, to the point where I have to wrap my legs around his waist. It hits the spot perfectly. I'm also that girl who likes getting it hard so that helps a lot.

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      • Guest

        Originally posted by GlitterAndStuds
        The thing that works BEST for me though, is when my boyfriend grabs my butt and lifts my hips off the bed, to the point where I have to wrap my legs around his waist. It hits the spot perfectly. I'm also that girl who likes getting it hard so that helps a lot.
        Haha we LOVE that...you're talking his arms wrapped around your hips up under you with his hands holding your butt cheeks and elevating you a bit...if that's the one, his face is usually resting directly on the bed/pillow? Ugh...getting frisky thinking of that.

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        • Guest

          Originally posted by WildChild
          I get off in missionary every time, more readily so than on top. Every woman's body has it own little specialness. Try it with her feet over your shoulders. How about with her on her side, lower leg extended, upper leg bent?
          We'll try it. However, which way you talking - her feet above my shoulders but are legs bent at the knees or are they straight?

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          • WildChild
            Banned
            • Sep 2008
            • 14142

            Just play around with it, see what's comfortable, I think legs bent is most natural. It's really hits the spot.

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            • Livelaughlove
              Veteran Member
              • Aug 2008
              • 456

              -Put a pillow under her but. It gets you directly in line with her g-spot.
              -Shift your body up wards just a tad bit. That way your shaft will rub against her clit.
              -Let your fingers in on the action.
              - Try the taoist thrust!
              - Tell her to arch her back forward! Like a U that way she rotates her pelvis forward

              Experiment! and enjoy

              Live laugh and love
              Nice guys don't finish last, weak guys finish last.

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              • Hopeless Dork
                Veteran Member
                • Dec 2008
                • 4255

                Missionary is one of the easier positions for me to orgasm in without using my hand.
                Though it still takes just a tad longer than using my hand in other position, it always feels better because I've built up to it more.

                I like to put my legs behind my guys head and feel him get in me deeply and hit all my spots while I move around under him but... when its time for me to try to orgasm, I can't seem to come with my legs up.. I need to lower them and wrap them behind his... that angle lets me press myself against his body, while getting penetration to the right spots. I hold on to his back end and push into me while I do the movement from underneath. Works for me.
                Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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                • LanaBear
                  Veteran Member
                  • Jul 2009
                  • 8373

                  I can get there pretty easily in missionary, takes a little longer, but can't complain about that. However, like LLL said, pillow under the butt, should put you right in line with the g-spot and a wonderful orgasm for her. Or sometimes he's kneeling and my rear is on his thighs with my legs up his chest and draped over his shoulders. Again g-spot action, but he also plays with my clit in the position.

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                  • Guest

                    Originally posted by WildChild
                    I get off in missionary every time
                    Me to as i get turned on watching him on the job so to speak
                    never worked in missionary with my ex's but works everytime with my DH

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