[Guest]

We'll try it. However, which way you talking - her feet above my shoulders but are legs bent at the knees or are they straight?

I love my feet resting on his shoulders and my legs straight works everytime for an big O

[GlitterAndStuds]

Haha we LOVE that...you're talking his arms wrapped around your hips up under you with his hands holding your butt cheeks and elevating you a bit...if that's the one, his face is usually resting directly on the bed/pillow? Ugh...getting frisky thinking of that.

Haha YES. That's exactly what I mean. The higher he lifts me up, the better.

Yeah thinking about that at work is dangerous. Only 3 hours till I'm home with him, heh.

[Na-Na]

Legs over the shoulders always works for me. It's especially good when the knees are together. Tighter for him, more sensation for me.

[OGFL]

You could try adding some hip movements
Next time you and your girl doing it, grind your hips in a spiral fashion while your thrusting that your penis is going in/out in a circle motion instead straight(ish) line ( this will add more clit stimulation).

you could also stick your penis all the way in( if you without hurting don't know you 2 match up in size) and just grind your hips and let your pelvis grind on her clit directly( this is grinding though , so no thrusting is required, but only effective in basic missionary or when shes on top ( and she can even do it then ) ). This however requires direct clit stimulation( duh) so unless shes changes on that you probably get to use this one.

other than that the advice LLL and the ladies gave is pretty solid so experiment and hopefully you reap the rewards .

[Steph33]

I get my guy to grind in the horizontal while he's doing his thing, instead of just vertical in and out. Our general way is getting me off a few times (oral and other positions) before he does, can't blame him for being rather spent after he releases. If I want him a long time in missionary, he has to stop and wait every few minutes, or he'll get off. For whatever reason, and we've had intercourse in every gymnastic qualified position you can imagine, missionary is the only intercourse position where HE can cum.

So I don't look at that as an off for me. When I start cheering him on to get where he wants to go or put it where it belongs, his brain totally forgets the grind part. But it feels great, love seeing the look on his face close up when he releases. So though it isn't a long ride when he goes for it, it is an intense one. He can get me off earlier in a dozen or more other intercourse positions where he is much better able to hold back from releasing.

[Guest]

OK....gonna talk with her and hopefully try some/all of this over the weekend...i'll report back.

Thanks for all the suggestions.

[msfoxy03]

ok, the latest adventure for me was the arm of the couch. he laid the pillows down towards the edge. then i sat on the arm of the couch and laid back on the pillows. i ended up in a tilted position with my pelvis staying stationed on the are of the sofa. wit me being almost upside down, i was able to throw my legs back further, which allowed him deeper access and a more intense feeling for me. it was wild. have you tried that yet? if not, try it. you need positions that will allow you to enter from different angles.

[Guest]

OK....tried a lot of stuff today.

The pillows help...A LOT. She didnt' get there *yet* in this fashion, but we're working on it.

She wants to forego getting off completely until we can do it in that position.... Basically retraining herself. She's a trooper. I feel bad but she insists...and when i think about it, it probably isn't a bad idea.

Thanks guys for all the input. I will keep you posted on our progress.

[Guest]

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Thanks but no thanks - we've decided to work together without sexual aids.

[baja]

My $0.02 is that this has more to do with how well the guy is in-tune with his SO so that he can adjust and bring her to climax. If you pay very close attention to her, you'll know how to dial-in the right result