[queqid]

I left you a PM

[Ahryin]

Husband,

I know you didn't come here for judgement or questions about your post decision. So i will share what info I know. I have a friend who frequently participates in threesomes with other couples Married and Unmarried alike. I know that some people he meets over the internet and other through close knit circles. He himself is married which to me is funny because he doesn't want anyone touching his wife and to my knowledge she is oblivious to his doings. I'm not very clear on what you are asking? Are you asking for the meeting sites , or what we think as a forum in general.
It really depends on on your level or protection or jealousy. You thinking about it and doing it are two different things. I know one story he shared with me the guy blacked out on him because he said he has never heard his wife moan like that and she seemed to react more to him than her own husband. No one is really sure what the reaction another is going to have sexually or emotionally until it is tried. Have you ever thought about trying it with a female first? You do know there are strap on dildo's right? It also depends on your location and where you want to go. There are places in Nevada you can pay for professionals who you can actually speak with and let them know exactly what you want and exactly how far you are willing to go.

[Guest]

Not sure why if you love someone you would want to watch them have sex with someone else it totally confuses me

[Ahryin]

I share your feeling but to each it's own (is that how you say it..lol) I'm jealous in that aspect...you hear females and males all the time about the other cheating and one of the greatest hurts and fears is them penetrating or being penetrated by another. I don't understand it but I don't judge when two people try other things that I might not understand willingly

[anette]

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/8609-fantasies-normal-4.html#post103483

I would've posted that here had I saw this first.

[Husband and Wife]

Well, I am really interested in hearing from people who already had this experience: MM+F - and how did they make it happen, how did they find this third person. Some people here think I want to watch my wife with another man, but that is not what I want. I want all the three of us participating and nobody watching.

yeah, maybe we should take a trip to Nevada!

[Ahryin]

Maybe you should, at least their no one knows you and you would be a little more free to experience what it is you want to with less of a chance of social judgement

[Husband and Wife]

https://www.womens-health.com/boards...tml#post103483

I would've posted that here had I saw this first.

Hey, I ready your thread and it is very interesting. I don't have a problem about penis size although mine is not big, but I don't care. It is just that I know that my wife enjoys sex a lot. she watches porn, she read erotic stories, and I gave her consent to go online and have virtual sex if she wants. I don't care. Life is short and before you know it we are old and dying. So I really think we need to enjoy the time we have. We've been married for 13 years and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together regardless to what happen. So why not enjoy it to the fullest?

[Ahryin]

As long as your are confident and secure in your relationship and love thats all that matters regardless of what anyone says.
I don't have any direction to point you but I'm sure if you google it you will find some places you can go.

[HealthyBaby03]

When I met my wife and started dating her 14 years ago, we were a lot into reading erotic stories. She then handed me a magazine of erotic stories and in it had a picture of a woman with 2 men: one in front of her and one in the back.
We have been married all these years and recently we have been watching lots of internet videos and even got in a chat room – the same room but with 2 different computers so we chatted with each other and with other men.
Now I have really thinking about having a threesome with another man. I know my wife very well and I know she enjoys sex a lot. I don’t want anybody that I know. Just visiting another city with her and selecting someone very carefully. Not one fixed guy, but completely strangers, like going to a restaurant and befriending the waiter, etc.
I am not asking for advice. I am interested in hearing from people who have done something like this.
Husband

Dear Husband,

It has been 10 years since your original post. You and your wife would be married 24 years now. I am really curious to what happened with the threesome. If it ever happened, how did you each feel before, during and after. And now? I am asking because I am a wife who wants a threesome with 2 men, actually a 5 men at the same time has been a fantasy of mine since I was in late HS/early university. I also have fantasies with women too. I have never had anything more than one person at time. I have always been afraid of what might happen in regards to STD's, relationships, who would find out, would my parents/siblings find out, etc. I also never acted on it, because the opportunity never presented itself. I couldn't get guys interested in participating or women either. I may have had more serious friends back then.

My husband of 13 years together for 15 has been aware of my fantasies all this time. I am reaching my 40's and I am getting hotter for sex and pushing the envelope more and more as each day goes by. I finally found someone who I have been friends with for a few years who may be a willing participant. I mentioned it to my husband twice in an 18 month span. The first time he said maybe. The second time he said we need to have more time in bed together (we have kids and it is challenging).

Anyhow, I am curious to what happened with you and your wife and your emotional, and sexual relationship. My husband may be feeling like what you wrote 10 years ago. So I want to be prepared. I don't want to ask him again if it created too much for you and your wife. I love him dearly and don't want to hurt him in any way.

Thank you in advance!