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    Sex and Booze

    So - if I have a couple of drinks, say 1-6, sex is fine. 6 or more and its difficult at times. Desire is there, just the sensitivity isn't. Same with the lady....A couple puts her in good shape, but any more than that draws things out.

    You guys/girls the same? I hate getting older.
  • LanaBear
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 8373

    Same here - anything more than two or so and I'm just numb. Like you said the desire is there, the body just isn't. DH is good up until 6 or so. Sometimes, it's easier to just go to bed horny and reconvene at 2am or morning.

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    • Little
      • Feb 2007
      • 4329

      Precisely, and I'm still a young buck. The boyfriend rarely has more than one drink these days, so I don't think it affects him.
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      • WildChild
        Banned
        • Sep 2008
        • 14142

        LOL. Oh you aging people! I decided a long time ago that if I had to drink to have fun, sexual or otherwise, it was time to find new friends or playmates.

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        • Hopeless Dork
          Veteran Member
          • Dec 2008
          • 4255

          Drinking a couple makes me turned on easily and of course lowers my already low inhibitions with my guy lol...

          For him, While he seems to get turned on easily while drinking... I don't think he enjoys the sex as much, it takes him much longer to finish or sometimes unable to finish at all. I prefer those kind of activities with him when he is sober or has only had a couple! (though the occasional lasting too long thing is a benefit for me, I'd much prefer the sex to be shorter and him enjoy it more)
          Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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          • Chantalemma
            Senior Member
            • Apr 2009
            • 171

            Same here.. a couple gets me revved up and too many makes me numb...I have the same prob, my bf, if he has too many he last longer but man do I ever enjoy it then. He actually talks dirty to me more too.. BONUS!

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            • LanaBear
              Veteran Member
              • Jul 2009
              • 8373

              [QUOTE=Chantalemma;102947]Same here.. a couple gets me revved up and too many makes me numb...QUOTE]

              There seems to be a fine line between the two for me. It's hard to judge sometimes, but man, if I'm just right, is it ever fun!

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              • Guest

                [QUOTE=LanaBear;102954]
                Originally posted by Chantalemma
                Same here.. a couple gets me revved up and too many makes me numb...QUOTE]

                There seems to be a fine line between the two for me. It's hard to judge sometimes, but man, if I'm just right, is it ever fun!
                Yep - 3-4 glasses of wine is my sweet spot. Oh boy.

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                • Guest

                  Body and minding willing no matter how much i have to drink infact drink makes me more horny than normal lol

                  As for DH he is ok if he has had 2 drinks anymore than that forget it as it just isnt going to happen bless him

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                  • Ahryin
                    Veteran Member
                    • Jul 2009
                    • 856

                    Im with Mrs. Doodles drinking doesn't have any negative side effects sexually for me. Then again I know my limit and am quick to say don't pass that my way..lol

                    However I know my girlfriend can't have more than three or she will pass out during sex..lol literally..just start snoring on her dude!

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