[teedee]

My BF of 3 years wants to cum into my mouth and on my face but it really groesses me out. I've tried to tell him nicely but he said this is the biggest turn on for him and he would be so happy if he can do that to me. What should I do guys?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I appreciate that there is such a thing as compromise... But, bottom line is, if you don't feel comfortable that's all there is to it... No one can pressure you to do something you don't want to do...

Does he spend 20 - 40 minutes down south for you?

Is he giving everything you desire or want to try and you never give anything? That would be different.

I see this as him badgering you so that you succumb.

CW

[teedee]

I appreciate that there is such a thing as compromise... But, bottom line is, if you don't feel comfortable that's all there is to it... No one can pressure you to do something you don't want to do...

Does he spend 20 - 40 minutes down south for you?

Is he giving everything you desire or want to try and you never give anything? That would be different.

I see this as him badgering you so that you succumb.

CW

There is no question that he satisfies me a lot. The problem is I don't feel comfortable and I can't swallow his cum. He attempted once but I didn't like it. I do everything he likes except the cuming into my mouth thing. Should I tell him again nicely? On the other hand, I want to make him happy. He was married before me and he once told me that his ex-wife never allowed him to do that. I feel like I have to do that to earn him. I dunno....I feel like he'll leave me soon if I don't do that.

[OG612]

Just like your diet effects the way you taste, so does his. Get him started on something like peach or pineapple juice (or something sweet along those lines) and watch what a couple of days will make.

He's trying to guilt trip you in to fulfilling his porno fantasy of the money shot (cumming on your face). And, coming from a man, head feels a lot better when we ejaculate in to your mouth. I can't explain it. Something about the pressure. It's just... anyways.

Get him started on pineapple juice (or something that you like) and try it. If it still grosses you out, or you still don't like the taste, tell him straight up that you just don't like it but wanted to please him by doing this for him.

The fact that you were willing to try it should be good enough for him. But if he wants a woman that will swallow and/or take a load to the face, then he's either going to leave you for one, or see one behind your back. However, I seriously doubt this is a "deal breaker" for him since you've been together for 3 years.

OG

[Na-Na]

Strictly speaking, you don't have to swallow if he comes in your mouth. If the taste is what bothers you, maybe try what the others have said and have him add more fruit to his diet? What exactly about cumming on your face is that grosses you out? Would it be cleanup, the feeling of it on your skin, the idea of it? I know you said you've tried swallowing, but have you let him ejaculate on your face yet?

[OG612]

In my younger days I dated a few women who would go down on me, but not let me finish in their mouth. So I'd finish on the chest. I'd then rub my finger in it and place it in their mouth. It's not that they didn't like the taste (I didn't know what I know now), it's that they didn't like the feeling of a man cumming in their mouth.

Maybe that's her hang up?

OG

[Na-Na]

It could be. I've had problems with it myself. It really helps to give advise if we get more detail.

[teedee]

Strictly speaking, you don't have to swallow if he comes in your mouth. If the taste is what bothers you, maybe try what the others have said and have him add more fruit to his diet? What exactly about cumming on your face is that grosses you out? Would it be cleanup, the feeling of it on your skin, the idea of it? I know you said you've tried swallowing, but have you let him ejaculate on your face yet?

He once came to my face and wanted me to swallow. I tasted it and didn't like it. At the end of the day I'm not a porn star. I don't think I want to do that again but I don't know how to tell him.He almost begs me to do that. I mean of course I want to make him happy but not sure about this one. He brought this up last year or maybe 1 1/2 years ago. He didn't say anything about it before. I don't want to lose him but I really don't think I can swallow or let him come on my face again.

[OG612]

He brought this up last year or maybe 1 1/2 years ago. He didn't say anything about it before. I don't want to lose him but I really don't think I can swallow or let him come on my face again.

Then tell him that's not an option. You're not comfortable with the idea and you wouldn't try to get him to do something that both of you weren't completely comfortable with.

OG

[LanaBear]

If its not something you don't feel comfortable doing, then don't do it. If it is something you think you can get over, then start with baby steps. There are things you can do to work up to that point.

If he loves you, he won't leave you over it.