[miffed23]

A girlfriend of mine bought up an interesting question today - After a rampant session, her boyfriend said something along the lines of, "Can you not move so much during sex"

Now, she was as shocked as i was and apparently shes not like doing somersaults or making shapes in the bedroom - just 'getting in to it', moving in unison with him, the occassional leg lift etc.

So my question is: Is it really that off-putting to have a wriggler underneath you? Does it somehow stop your momentum?

[Texinator]

Nope. Sounds like he needs to remember that there are supposed to be two people involved in sex.

[baja]

I like to establish a good rhythm, someone who wriggles too much can make this... more adventurous... not that this is a bad thing

[thack]

i could agree that movement below would keep it from becoming like having sex with a corpse.... if its resulting in the man popping out constantly, to where he is re-inserting himself more than actually having sex, then i could see justification for asking someone to calm down a bit, lol. I like the way a woman moves under me, its a turn on, it at least appears as if the woman is into it, rocking her hips as i thrust, or pushing back against me to increase the force, ect.. ect..

seems a little weird to me that someone wouldnt want that, BUT, to each his/her own in my honest opinion.

[d4lly]

i got a question for u
do guys think "innocent" looking chicks r hot or chicks that dress rele "****ty' (sorry i cant think of a better word) r hot or something in between? lol coz my bf says he likes "innocent" looking girls, but when he points out someone he thinks is hot they r the opposite of innocent looking hahah

[caterpillar79]

i got a question for u
do guys think "innocent" looking chicks r hot or chicks that dress rele "****ty' (sorry i cant think of a better word) r hot or something in between? lol coz my bf says he likes "innocent" looking girls, but when he points out someone he thinks is hot they r the opposite of innocent looking hahah

I have the same question in mind...so, guys, bring it on!

[Guest]

i got a question for u
do guys think "innocent" looking chicks r hot or chicks that dress rele "****ty' (sorry i cant think of a better word) r hot or something in between? lol coz my bf says he likes "innocent" looking girls, but when he points out someone he thinks is hot they r the opposite of innocent looking hahah

I think the word you were looking for was "provocative."

Both can be hot. Sometimes the same woman dresses differently based on the situation. Work/lounging/clubbing outfits ARE very different.

Everyone has their preferences, but most men can see the beauty or sexiness in all types of different women. Just depends on the man and his preference and his level of arousal, lol.

I personally prefer short gym shirts and tank tops to heels and suits.

[Texinator]

For me it matters more how a woman carries herself. Confidence is very sexy and attractive regardless of what she is wearing.

[alterview]

yes!

I don't think it's very hard for a straight man to be attracted to a woman and it doesn't matter too much how they are dressed. Variety is nice.

Personally, I appreciate and enjoy the dressed up business look or the going out on a fancy date look but its more a beauty thing instead of a sensual attraction. The casual look of loose comfortable pants and a top that shows just a bit of midriff is very nice and sensual. I don't care for make-up at all.

btw- What is the 'innocent' look any way? Plain jane, hair up, no make-up and glasses? That can be very nice too. Or more of the youth as innocences look of schoolgirl uniform? That can be fun too. Oh, the world of role play is fun.

Like another poster pointed out, confidence is wonderful and gym clothes are nice too... a nice looking woman no matter what she is wearing is a fantastic thing to behold. No wonder why straight women are prone to enjoying the sight of other women. Not many straight guys are will or able to admit when they notice a nice looking man.

cheers!

[WildChild]

I have a suspicion that what d4lly's bf was talking about was the difference between what he likes to look at and how he wants other men to see her?