[Haven]

Why do men say...I have no reason to Lie (which to me is code for i'm about to lie) when they have every intention of lying????

If we say it at the beginning of a conversation we start, it works on the same principle as "I'm not xxxxx, but..." - you know what's coming next.

If it's in the middle of a conversation you start, you've probably been pestering us with some silly suspicions and we're attempting to defuse them through reason... not like that'll work

[1life2live]

I feel like the only person in the world bothered by the fact that my boyfriend was not a virgin before having sex with me... He had only had sex two times before me, yet somehow I feel like it is unfair that I lost my virginity to him, and made a memory with him yet it was probably nothing to him... he says it did mean something to him because he actually loves me, and sex with me is far more amazing... I just don't know how much of that is true or just something to make me feel better? I really hate being that stupid cliche virginity story, but it really bothers me...

What do you think, men?

[mr.mansview]

i think it is too late to reclaim your virginity..if it was that important to u, u should have asked more questions beforehand..

[WildChild]

i think it is too late to reclaim your virginity..if it was that important to u, u should have asked more questions beforehand..

In other words, not a big issue?

[mr.mansview]

In other words, not a big issue?

it's obviously a big issue to the OP..therefore she should have found out more of his sexual history before giving away her virginity..

[1life2live]

That's not what I was trying to say... I was basically asking if it is true that a guy can value another girl's first time and if it's possible that he enjoys it more with me than the other girl, or if that is just a common lie guys tell. I don't regret losing my virginity to him...

[mr.mansview]

sorry 1l 2l..i misunderstood..i think u would find as many guys who claim to value a girl's 1st time as often as those who don't..prolly same ratio with the lying question..

[Guest]

That's not what I was trying to say... I was basically asking if it is true that a guy can value another girl's first time and if it's possible that he enjoys it more with me than the other girl, or if that is just a common lie guys tell. I don't regret losing my virginity to him...

Is he still with you? If so, then yes, I'd believe him.

As far as sex - 95% of the time it feels amazing for us men. In addition to the physical component, one main aspect that makes sex better is doing it with someone you have strong feelings for.

[1life2live]

Thank you so much Reading that made me feel a lot better!!

[momopi]

Rough skin where?

Uhm, underside of the butt?