[baja]

I prefer the innocent looking girl that has something revealing her not-so-innocent side underneath. This can be a lot of fun if the right creativity is applied...

[uscgrl2036]

How do guys feel about phone sex?? Because my boyfriend has to go on a lot of business trips, and when he is gone and I get horny all I want to do is talk dirty to him.

and do guys not like giving girls oral?

[Texinator]

and do guys not like giving girls oral?

It's like its own food group for me but, yeah, some guys think it's nasty.

[sourpuss]

Why do guys try so hard to be all sweet and romantic when they are pursuing a girl only to just get comfortable once the relationship is secure and barely try? I've found that it only leads to frustration later because I feel like I signed up for a different person than I got. I understand the whole 'new and exciting' phase but it seems that time and time again, with the guys that I've dated, it's almost like night and day.

[dolphinlefty]

lol. What a funny thread.
"He's not glued to the TV he's glued to the remote! Like if I'm looking for the remote all I have to do is grab him and take it from out his back pocket! He's not even watching it..it doesn't even half to be on..he will still have the freaking remote!!!"

The fact that he carries the remote around is freaking hilarious. It wouldn't bother me if my boyfriend did that though. I'm not much for television.

It makes me so upset when my boyfriend farts around me. If you're in pain cause you can't let gas out, go ahead, but if you don't NEED to fart around me, please don't. It's not a turn-on. Plus I just consider it respectful to your partner to not do that stuff around them unless it's hurting you.

My boyfriend slobbers like mad when he sleeps. This doesn't bother me. What does bother me is if he ever kisses me and leaves any amount of saliva anywhere, it is like fingernails on a blackboard to most people. I can't stand it. My mom used to kiss me and UGH. I hate it when people kiss me on the cheek and leave saliva. It just makes me wanna kill a small rodent in a very violent way.

I would think a lot of guys would consider it a stab to their manhood to be asked to sit down to pee. Personally I would kill for a pecker sometimes. Especially in public bathrooms. I don't understand the big deal about leaving the toilet seat up or down. How hard is it to put a toilet seat down? It just becomes habit after awhile and it's all cool. I prefer they put it up so they don't pee on the part I sit on. Unless you have a little girl, I think it should be a 50/50 with the toilet seat. He has to put it up, you have to put it down. No biggie.

haha. I do the glazed "I'm not listening" to my boyfriend all the time. haha. How can I not? He's trying to explain the time and space continuum to me and it hurts my head trying to even comprehend it. Then there are the conversations about all the parts in his truck and how AWESOME each thing is. I don't get it. Don't care. I love you, but I just don't care to understand the intricate workings to your truck, time/space continuum, and how all the upper math calculations can be put to work in the real world. But I am exceptionally glad you're so smart.

[Texinator]

get comfortable once the relationship is secure and barely try?

You just answered your own question.

Those guys are sweet and romantic for the sake of 'sealing the deal.' It's salesmanship. Once the 'deal is in the bag' they think there is no more reason for them to be sweet and romantic anymore.

[WildChild]

Ah well, Sourpuss you and I are in the same boat. I got so much attention and love and care and then (to quote a lady we both know and love) pfffttt.

[sourpuss]

You just answered your own question.

Those guys are sweet and romantic for the sake of 'sealing the deal.' It's salesmanship. Once the 'deal is in the bag' they think there is no more reason for them to be sweet and romantic anymore.

Do guys ever complain about women doing that? I just don't get trying to be someone you're not just to get someone to like you. Wouldn't it be better for everyone if you're future girlfriend liked you for who you are rather than who you pretended to be to get her to be your girlfriend?

[Texinator]

Some woman do the same with appearance and sex. They like to pretty themselves up and be sexually direct in the early stages and then gradually cool down as the relationship progresses and becomes more secure.

It's sort of like using bait to lure the other person in. I agree that it's misleading and people in general should just be themselves and not go out of their way to do something special to 'catch' a partner.

[mdraven380]

So I saw this guy my friends know only three times. Seems like we were hitting it off really quick. He keeps telling me that he's not ready for a commitment. I never asked him for one? He says he could fall head over heals for me but doesn't want to be a dissapointment. I'm about ready to move on cause this seems like he just wants some and wants me to be a friend with benifits which I have refused to do. Whatever happened to getting to know someone before you jump in the sac?