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  • Chantalemma
    Senior Member
    • Apr 2009
    • 171

    Yes we use both but just to make sure. We just bought a home and want to be cautious at the moment. We use condoms and birth control. we are first partners for both me and my SO. He is 24 and I am 23 yrs old. We have been together almost 10 years.

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    • Guest

      Originally posted by Chantalemma
      Yes we use both but just to make sure. We just bought a home and want to be cautious at the moment. We use condoms and birth control. we are first partners for both me and my SO. He is 24 and I am 23 yrs old. We have been together almost 10 years.
      If your using Birth control and condoms at the same time the chances of you getting pregnant are pretty much zero tbh

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      • Guest

        Originally posted by Chantalemma
        Is it a turn on for you guys to have your gf swallow? Do you rather cum on her face or body? What is the most satisfying for you?

        Woman: do you let your man cum on you? Is it a turn on? Do you rather he cum in a towel or in a condom?

        Do you rather intercourse or a bj?
        It doesn't matter whether she swallows or not...I prefer not to have her swallowing while i'm still in her mouth. Sometimes I ask to cum on her face, some times it happens on accident, but most times I do it on her stomach. Most satisfying is definitely cumming inside.

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        • SFDad
          Member
          • Apr 2009
          • 39

          "Is it a turn on for you guys to have your gf swallow? Do you rather cum on her face or body? What is the most satisfying for you?"

          I have been lucky. My first GF just swallowed and I just assumed that was normal. Later I found out that some women don't care to. Preference is swallow- don't care to come on body and the idea of coming on her face is a real turn off to me- really seems like a porn thing that never had any appeal to me.

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          • Guest

            Originally posted by Chantalemma
            I too swallow. I don't mind it. It cleans up a mess perfectly fine
            Correct

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            • alicat
              Member
              • Sep 2008
              • 77

              depends, I don't mind swallowing just sometimes it's uhmmm too much lol

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              • Hopeless Dork
                Veteran Member
                • Dec 2008
                • 4255

                I love giving my guy bjs more than any other sexual act even though I have gspot orgasms, clitoral orgasms, am capable of coming 2 or 3 times in a matter of minutes when extremely heated and just love sex in general with him.

                There is just something about pleasing him in that way that does it for me emotionally.

                Maybe I'm just weird (thats probably the case).

                1. The look and feel of his penis is an extreme turn on for me. Being up close and personal with it, lubricates me instantly.

                2. Being in total control of his pleasure, is a turn on - having him sit back and let me put on a show excites me to no end.

                3. To me its like art. I get to be creative and do whatever I want and just listen to the sounds he makes and love finding what feels good to him... its fun and sexually thrilling to me.

                4. His orgasms are like the sundae under the cherry Its the best part. Its the only actual tactile/visual materialization of his greatest pleasure and I crave it from the second I pull his pants down. He doesn't seem to have a preference for where it ultimately ends up so I try it different ways all the time: my breasts, my lips and the outside of my mouth/chin but my favorite is right across my tongue and swallowing.

                I feel closer to him in those seconds than any other.
                Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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                • Guest

                  Originally posted by alicat
                  depends, I don't mind swallowing just sometimes it's uhmmm too much lol
                  Its never to much just swallowe faster

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                  • Guest

                    Originally posted by Mrs Doodles
                    Its never to much just swallowe faster
                    I had to chuckle at that.

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                    • GlitterAndStuds
                      Veteran Member
                      • Jul 2009
                      • 1182

                      I never used to like going down on guys. At all. But I really like doing it for my boyfriend now, mostly because he gives so much positive feedback Plus I won't do it for just anyone. I've never spit it, for some reason the idea of that grosses me out more than swallowing does for a lot of other people. I just prefer to swallow to avoid the mess, plus it gets rid of the taste quicker. I would hate to hold it in my mouth until I find somewhere to spit it...eeeh.

                      About the post that says it can be too much, sometimes it is, haha. Just the other day I did it for him and almost lost all of it

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