[wcc]

Wow you are a lucky lucky woman

[Guest]

I did that twice last week.

Typical sex session - we went at the same time, and I left it in. I could feel I got a little softer, but I still had that throbbing tingly feeling so we went at it again.

First times I've done that to since I started masturbating at an early age.

[WildChild]

Ah but you are young, this doesn't last.
Do not become dependant on it. I think it's nature's way keeping women from giving up on young men since they need time develop the ability to hold themselves back until their partner has cum. If they can cum and keep going, she can still get what she needs. As males mature they should be more skilled and able pleasure their partner without having to go two or three rounds.

[Guest]

Ah but you are young, this doesn't last.

LOL - *any* kind words for me today, miz? Ugh, I hate getting old.

[WildChild]

LOL, It sounds like you are developing the relationship, communcation and skills to carry for a lifetime. Older men who have not gotten completely selfish and self absorbed sexually are wonderful lovers, of course that would be true of any age and true of women too.
I have a feeling that you and your lady will still be happily going at it on your 50th anniversary. My parents are in their 70s and I know several other couples in that age group, who are more affectionate and very probably have more active sex lifes than many much younger couples.

[Haven]

Have you experienced it?

Some guys have it happen as a freak thing, but it's actually an ability a guy can develop - I say this as a guy who has developed that ability.

If you want to know whether or not it'll go away in time, ask your guy how he's doing it. An "I don't know" means it may not last. A detailed explanation means it probably will, because a guy who's doing that on purpose isn't going to let that ability atrophy

[Theresa]

Do you really think is is a "developed ability". That would be great but I was thinking on the line of it being an "age ability". My DH just turned 50 on Sunday. That would be great if a man could train his body to do that at any age!!!!

[Guest]

Do you really think is is a "developed ability". That would be great but I was thinking on the line of it being an "age ability". My DH just turned 50 on Sunday. That would be great if a man could train his body to do that at any age!!!!

Meh - the acquired way of doing this by practice is, in my experience, not nearly the same thing as having multiple real orgasms.

Basically what he's saying is to have an orgasm(s) without ejaculating. I've trained myself to do that a while back but it really sucks. You can do it over and over again as much as you want. However, there is no release, mental or physical even though you have an orgasm. Basically you take yourself to the point of no return where the muscle contractions start and you clamp down on your PC muscle to prohibit ejaculate from exiting. Since you don't ejaculate I guess the body is tricked into thinking the sexual encounter is not over. I find this extremely useless and wouldn't recommend it unless someone with premature ejaculation problems wanted to try it to prolong their performance.


*However*

What i'm talking about is two...back to back full on orgasms where you ejaculate both times. Obviously the second time the volume of ejaculate isn't as much as the first, but the orgasm is definitely there.

Hope that helps.

[Haven]

Basically what he's saying is to have an orgasm(s) without ejaculating. . . What i'm talking about is two back to back full on orgasms where you ejaculate both times.

That's what I'm talking about as well. A while back, I put up a video doing exactly that, just to prove it was possible - if anyone were to search for "male multiple orgasms ejaculatory", they'd see it.

A lot of the information on becoming a multi-orgasmic man is based around the idea of "dry" orgasms, like you mentioned, but it's possible to achieve multiple "wet" orgasms by modifying those techniques a little. For the smaller ones, the release isn't as good as a full orgasm, but it is there... and a full release awaits at the last orgasm.
It's also worth noting that other guys report feeling pretty good after a non-ejaculatory orgasm, but I left that path pretty quickly once I learned there was a better way.

Do you really think is is a "developed ability". That would be great but I was thinking on the line of it being an "age ability". My DH just turned 50 on Sunday. That would be great if a man could train his body to do that at any age!!!!

It would take time and he'd have to really want it. Men can train their bodies to do 50 pushups in a row, even at age 50, but many don't. If your guy is disciplined and capable of sticking to a routine, you could buy him a book on male multiple orgasms as a late birthday present just to see what he does with it.
Many of those books are full of Taoist philosophy, which is unnecessary at best and useless at worst, but I don't really have a recommendation because I picked up what I needed to know elsewhere.

[WildChild]

This is an ancient tantric techinque. They believe that a man will deplete himself by ejaculating and master dry orgasms