[Theresa]

YES! I love that movie! That didn't even occur to me until you said that, haha. I love anything by Kevin Smith, that genius.

Aah, sorry Theresa! I was gonna ask you though, have you asked him why he doesn't do it anymore?

My first husband did (very well I might add) but my second and current husband has never done it. Not sure why - I am thinking "lack of knowledge" is the problem. But hey - he loves porn and watches frequently. You think he would see how it is done!!!!

Now you got me wondering. He says he will but never does it.

Second and current husband does not sound right. He is a great guy and a keeper. Just thought I might add that.

[GlitterAndStuds]

My first husband did (very well I might add) but my second and current husband has never done it. Not sure why - I am thinking "lack of knowledge" is the problem. But hey - he loves porn and watches frequently. You think he would see how it is done!!!!

Now you got me wondering. He says he will but never does it.

Second and current husband does not sound right. He is a great guy and a keeper. Just thought I might add that.

Ooooh, okay, I was thinking it was the same guy and that he used to do it and doesn't anymore. I'm up to speed now, haha.

Yeah it sounds like something that guys will never do if they haven't done it enough, or know enough about it. All I have to say is practice makes perfect... Teach teach teach! It's amazing how quickly guys catch on to these things, isn't it? hehe

[Guest]

You ladies are making me jealous!!!!!

Don't feel bad - my fiance at 24 hadn't had anyone go down on her before. Even when we first started dating, she wouldn't let me down there for long.

I've gently insisted on more oral play for her in the past few months.

Now its her favorite way to climax.

And I have a stiff neck and sore wrist many mornings.

[Theresa]

Ooooh, okay, I was thinking it was the same guy and that he used to do it and doesn't anymore. I'm up to speed now, haha.

Yeah it sounds like something that guys will never do if they haven't done it enough, or know enough about it. All I have to say is practice makes perfect... Teach teach teach! It's amazing how quickly guys catch on to these things, isn't it? hehe

I am hoping he will someday....I let him know I want it.

Life is funny that way. My first husband was a great lover but a crappy husband and father. Mu second and "last" husband is a great husband and father but a crappy lover.

[Theresa]

Don't feel bad - my fiance at 24 hadn't had anyone go down on her before. Even when we first started dating, she wouldn't let me down there for long.

I've gently insisted on more oral play for her in the past few months.

Now its her favorite way to climax.

And I have a stiff neck and sore wrist many mornings.

If I remember correctly (it has been over 20 years since I have had oral), it was the greatest feeling and an amazing way to cum. That is why I want it to become a part of our sex life soooo bad.

[Livelaughlove]

Well first I have to ask!

IS there anything that you may have said that may make him think you dont like oral?

Because it is a possibility that you hinted that you didn't like it so he is just trying to agree with you.

IF thats not the case then I have to say that sex should be something in which the partner receives pleasure from satisfying the other.

Withholding oral from him I dont think will solve anything instead it will turn the relationship into a back and forth bickering contest!

But You should approach the topic differently. Its just a matter of being a good communicator. Easiest way to convince someone of something is by Building a yes ladder then linking it to said problem!

"Do you like sex?"
"Do you like oral"
"Do you like making me happy?"
"Do you like seeing me happy"

Well I want to feel your tongue on my . That will make me happy.

You can be more intimate with your yes ladder. Dont do it to the point where it begins to feel repetitive.

I hope you dont feel ashamed of saying either, because that just shows that your insecure about your sexuality in which you shouldn't

Hope this helps

Live laugh and love

[LanaBear]

Now you got me wondering. He says he will but never does it.

If he says he will... What's stopping him? There's got to be a way to guide him south. I know you love pleasing him, but maybe don't be so quick to satisfy him before you have your turn... Keep in mind, he says he will, but maybe you need to progress in a different direction. I don't know... It's a thought.

[Theresa]

If he says he will... What's stopping him? There's got to be a way to guide him south. I know you love pleasing him, but maybe don't be so quick to satisfy him before you have your turn... Keep in mind, he says he will, but maybe you need to progress in a different direction. I don't know... It's a thought.

I think I have said this before but I know the way to "guide him south".

A medium rare rib steak and a baked potatoe between my legs!!!!!!

[Guest]

If I remember correctly (it has been over 20 years since I have had oral), it was the greatest feeling and an amazing way to cum. That is why I want it to become a part of our sex life soooo bad.

20 years?!!

When I showed her she could get off orally she expressed concerns that she's going to want it all the time, lol.

When I added some g-spot stimulation to it, she expressed concerns that I'm going to need a neckbrace.

These were very recent discoveries for us....so don't feel alone!

Be a little more vocal....when you two are in the heat of things, dirty talk to him how you want his tongue down there....then slowly push it down.

Good Luck.

[Livelaughlove]

I think I have said this before but I know the way to "guide him south".

A medium rare rib steak and a baked potatoe between my legs!!!!!!

What a trap!

LMAO

I would def. fall for it!