[Theresa]

20 years?!!

When I showed her she could get off orally she expressed concerns that she's going to want it all the time, lol.

When I added some g-spot stimulation to it, she expressed concerns that I'm going to need a neckbrace.

These were very recent discoveries for us....so don't feel alone!

Be a little more vocal....when you two are in the heat of things, dirty talk to him how you want his tongue down there....then slowly push it down.

Good Luck.

I think she is right. The feeling is amazing and hard not to want it all the time but foreplay is a good thing for a healthy sex life which includes oral for BOTH involved.

Although I am horny alot it is still hard to get excited when you only give and not receive. I am happy that my DH is satisfied in bed but it is frustrating that I don't get that satisfaction also.

[GlitterAndStuds]

I was ready to say what OTYA said. Such a smart one But yeah, I think what you have to do right now is exactly that. Not necessarily like "get your head down there soldier!" but yeah, when he gets you super turned on just give him a nudge. If he doesn't get it then.... I don't even know. Try it this weekend! Guys do appreciate a woman who can take charge.

[LanaBear]

Be a little more vocal....when you two are in the heat of things, dirty talk to him how you want his tongue down there....then slowly push it down.

Yep - I little dirty talk goes a long way sometimes...

[Steph33]

My b/f is a cannibal, he'd rather eat me than be inside me. I can cum 4-5 times when I'm on top and (gently) riding while he gives me oral and the more wet the more excited he gets. Never was with anyone who liked it as much, and he's REAL good at it. I'm spoiled for being with anyone else, your guy just needs a "taste" to enjoy what he's missing.

[nightqueen]

I think she is right. The feeling is amazing and hard not to want it all the time but foreplay is a good thing for a healthy sex life which includes oral for BOTH involved.

Although I am horny alot it is still hard to get excited when you only give and not receive. I am happy that my DH is satisfied in bed but it is frustrating that I don't get that satisfaction also.

Not being mean or anything Theresa, but I just think it's interesting that you think he's a wonderful husband and yet he is a selfish lover and doesn't see any need to satisfy you. How in-tune to you is he really?? 20 years without oral sex and you loved it so much?? And you do it to him?? That just doesn't sound right.

[GlitterAndStuds]

That'll be the Clitical Thinking logo by the way.

Hahahaha... you crack me up! It's definitely a fine way of thinking

[Ahryin]

My boyfirend says he doesnt want to go down on me because "itll be like licking a water slide" it kinda makes me feel like im to wet when he says that. iv never been gone down on and dont know how it feels so i dont know if im missing out on anything. i dont want to force him to do it. i like the other stuff we do. im just really curious about it all really and if you think there would be anyway to change his mind.

Tell him you can't service him because it would be like sucking on a stiff pole and cross your hands, tilt your head and make the ill face!

[Ahryin]

Oh and if you can (if you are quick enough...because you can only get his off if you have that don't mess with me face and attitude at the exact moment you need to have it) SMACK him upside his head and walk away mumbling loudly dumb ****! and roll your eyes!

[Texinator]

It's definitely a fine way of thinking

It did nearly lead to a busted lip once.

Cause she got carried away and tried to smack me with her pubic bone.

[Awoman2]

My quick advice before reading the rest of this thread is, if you really love your boyfriend NEVER let anyone go down on you, because if you get it good, he's done!

And another thing, which may be counter-productive to what I just said, don't let anyone keep you in ignorance.