[Guest]

I have been doing exctly that and no action from my husband in over 2 weeks.

It is a good thing I am taking care of myself or I would be in the looney bin.

How does that work? 2 weeks? He should be about ready to explode.

[Guest]

Fell4aWOLF, are you stating that you only see your boyfriend on weekends?

Do you visit each other's places?

Your at your cheeky side sexually, men are at theirs at your age, some however in their 40's as far as lots of sex goes but not always the case, due to stress, work etc...

Do you want to give us a bit more information to go on in order to answer you....

Like the above questions and how long you've been together, what you do when you catch up and see each other, if he sends you text messages during the week or only you etc, etc,

CW

Thank you for your quick reply...

We've been together for 2 years, I work afternoons and he works midnights, so we usually see eachother with the changing of shifts for about 5 minutes. When hes working I am sleeping, when hes sleeping Im worrking! We have Friday, Saturday and sunday off, so i usually spend the weekend with him. Up until a few weeks ago he would at least respond to my racey texts, with a cute comment or even send a picture, but lately he doesn't even respond to them. The text messages he does reply to are delayed and straight to the point. So i wonder if he is just no longer into me, or if he is seeing someone else? Hes free every work day til 10 pm, when his shift starts.

Thank you for all your help.

[stressed]

How does that work? 2 weeks? He should be about ready to explode.

Actually, men's bodies work in such a way that a certain amount of sperm finds its way out whether they ejaculate or not. So, 'exploding' is basically a myth created by men to make women believe that they have to have sex with their men in order to please them. It's more about sex drive and mentally wanting to have sex than physically having to have sex. Many women feel like 'exploding' without sex and they don't have testicles.

[Guest]

Many women feel like 'exploding' without sex and they don't have testicles.

I absolutely agree!

[Theresa]

How does that work? 2 weeks? He should be about ready to explode.

Well...you would think that! I know I am.

[WildChild]

If sharing the frustration helps, count me in. You can't force a man to get an errection and share it. If the man you care for and are dedicated to won't go there, you're kind of stuck. Exersize helps, working your butt off helps, masterbating at least takes the edge off although it's just not the same. Some how it's not so bad if there isn't anyone special in your life. Maybe that's just me?

[Lyn]

It's about control and since the baby, he's likely to have had lots of feelings he's been unable to express. All the time and attention you give the baby for example. He does the right thing, has less sex for ages and then 6 weeks after the birth he's being told what to do again...and again.
May I suggest you stop asking for sex and give a bit of control back to him. Let him decide for a change.
Worth a try?

[Guest]

Actually, men's bodies work in such a way that a certain amount of sperm finds its way out whether they ejaculate or not. So, 'exploding' is basically a myth created by men to make women believe that they have to have sex with their men in order to please them. It's more about sex drive and mentally wanting to have sex than physically having to have sex. Many women feel like 'exploding' without sex and they don't have testicles.

I used the word "exploding" as a metaphor. The longer I go without release, the more ejaculate and usually the stronger muscle contractions with orgasm. So - you could say - that a greatly delayed ejaculation could be described as "explosive." Let's be serious here, i'm not talking about spontaneous combustion.