I've gone to sleep with my head on his shoulder and woke him up with my head in his lap over his navel with his aroused penis on my lips. He said the two times that happened he was just waiting to see if I started a BJ in my sleep which I didn't but he was probably wishing I did. I woke myself up last night and found my hand on his hardon so I must have done that while he was still asleep. I'm thinking about making a doctor's appt to ask about this but thought I'd ask first. Our sexlife is great and we make love on average 5-7 times per week, sometimes more than once in the same 24 hour period mostly on the weekend. I'm not sure that he wants me to stop but I'd like to find out what is going on....maybe I'm dreaming about it and don't remember. Any of you done anything along these lines while you were asleep?
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Sexual Things Done While Sleeping
I've been thinking about starting this thread for some time now because of some things that I've been doing while I've been asleep and I'm wondering if any of you have done anything similar. I've heard of sleepwalking and I don't do that but I've awaken my husband stroking his penis past the point of arousal for several minutes. He's told me the next morning that he knew I was asleep because of my breathing. I've done this quite a few times in the past several months. He doesn't mind getting awakened for this, I might add, and I'm not surprised, I just wish I remembered doing it.
I've gone to sleep with my head on his shoulder and woke him up with my head in his lap over his navel with his aroused penis on my lips. He said the two times that happened he was just waiting to see if I started a BJ in my sleep which I didn't but he was probably wishing I did. I woke myself up last night and found my hand on his hardon so I must have done that while he was still asleep. I'm thinking about making a doctor's appt to ask about this but thought I'd ask first. Our sexlife is great and we make love on average 5-7 times per week, sometimes more than once in the same 24 hour period mostly on the weekend. I'm not sure that he wants me to stop but I'd like to find out what is going on....maybe I'm dreaming about it and don't remember. Any of you done anything along these lines while you were asleep? -
Wow, I feel really unlucky. This has never happened, but I have to admit that my husband would probably be right up there with yours. He definitely would not mind. So how do I make this work? Any suggestions for that? LOL...on a more serious note, if it is something that you are really concerned about then you should definitely make an appt. to see your doctor. If its just something that you wonder why it happens but you don't think that its a big deal, maybe just enjoy it.Comment
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Great......I feel so much better now to find out that I'm not the only one that has done that. This has happened occasionally now for several years and is absolutely not predictable but it has happened several more times in the past several months, that's the reason for the concern. Good to find out that several have experienced it. I'll wait for others to comment before I decided whether I need to make an appointment......right now I'm thinking not. Thanks to all who responded as it was really beginning to be a concern.Comment
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it is possible that he already had an erection and u started touching him while asleep..i think that's probably quite common..you know he is there and u reach 4 him while u r asleep..apparently i'm a boob groper while i'm sleepng..i roll over and subconsciously grab for what i'm used to..most men get several erections during the course of the night..most times we don't even know we have them unless we r being touched or roll over on them..ouch..that gets my attention..a smart man learns from his mistakes..a wise man learns from the mistakes of others..Comment
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