You aren't devoid of sexual interest, you can cum masterbating, you have had some interest in the past. Certainly the drugs may be a part of it and oddly enough some of the products sold for depression have "side effects" that essentially are depression. Any chance of getting off of them? Post partum was a while back. My ex was on several anti-depressants for pain management and being very analytical, said that they created a distance from life. He felt more like an observer than a participant.
Our brains are kind of simple minded in that whatever we tell them, tell ourselves, they believe and will act to make it true. The brain also doesn't really "hear" qualifiers. So if you self talk yourself with things like "I don't want to have a low libido" Your brain pretty much "hears", "Low libido". And it says, "I can do that". It's not just what you say to youself, or what you think, but how you say it. The more often, the higher the drama or emotion with it, the more impact it makes.
There may be many factors in your situation, changing the way you talk to and about yourself will help. This has been proven over and over by the experiences of millions of people. One thing you can do is to immerse yourself in material on this subject, start retraining your thinking. Books like; What to Say When You Talk To Yourself, Think and Grow Rich, Kiss My Tiara, The Red Book, Mama Gena, even Suzy Orman, all address aspects of changing your thinking and improving your selftalk.
You may also benefit from looking at some different aspects of sexuality and learning new skills, check out the Welcomed Consensus and books such as One Hour Orgasm, Extended Massive Orgasm and The Orgasm Loop, unlike many materials which focus mainly on male arousal, these are all devoted to female arousal. Start thinking juicier, sensually. You may be emotionally dosconnected from your body. Another book I would recommed is, The Heroine's Journey. This may sound like a lot but you never know when something will click in place, hit just the right note for you to open the door. It sounds like you are essentially flat lined emotionally, it's ok to wake up and feel. You have to give your self permission. Yes that means you may feel negative things but it also means feeling the positives. Don't give up.
What things do excite you? Does anything give you a thrill?
Our brains are kind of simple minded in that whatever we tell them, tell ourselves, they believe and will act to make it true. The brain also doesn't really "hear" qualifiers. So if you self talk yourself with things like "I don't want to have a low libido" Your brain pretty much "hears", "Low libido". And it says, "I can do that". It's not just what you say to youself, or what you think, but how you say it. The more often, the higher the drama or emotion with it, the more impact it makes.
There may be many factors in your situation, changing the way you talk to and about yourself will help. This has been proven over and over by the experiences of millions of people. One thing you can do is to immerse yourself in material on this subject, start retraining your thinking. Books like; What to Say When You Talk To Yourself, Think and Grow Rich, Kiss My Tiara, The Red Book, Mama Gena, even Suzy Orman, all address aspects of changing your thinking and improving your selftalk.
You may also benefit from looking at some different aspects of sexuality and learning new skills, check out the Welcomed Consensus and books such as One Hour Orgasm, Extended Massive Orgasm and The Orgasm Loop, unlike many materials which focus mainly on male arousal, these are all devoted to female arousal. Start thinking juicier, sensually. You may be emotionally dosconnected from your body. Another book I would recommed is, The Heroine's Journey. This may sound like a lot but you never know when something will click in place, hit just the right note for you to open the door. It sounds like you are essentially flat lined emotionally, it's ok to wake up and feel. You have to give your self permission. Yes that means you may feel negative things but it also means feeling the positives. Don't give up.
What things do excite you? Does anything give you a thrill?
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