[noor]

My fiance loves biting me. I like it if he does it gently but he gets carried away and I end up with bite marks all over my breasts and neck and shoulder. My lips sometimes become sore as he bites my lips while kissing. I don't tell him when he's doing it, as it spoils his mood. He says that he will not do it but it happens again.

[WildChild]

So it spoils His mood? What about YOUR mood? Tell him! Do you want to live with this the rest of your life?

[baja]

You might want to think about giving him a chew toy in-between intimate encounters

[danceintx]

You might want to think about giving him a chew toy in-between intimate encounters

LMAO!!
Heck no, I don't like pain with sex, sex is supposed to feel good. If you don't like it, and he won't listen, he's not concerned about your feelings as much as he is his own. I had an ex that for some reason liked to enter me while I was asleep, and I mean dead asleep. I would wake up and he would be in me. After a few times this really started to disturb me and I would even get really mad at him, but he wouldn't stop. I never had that problem with anyone else. Needless to say, we did not stay together long.

[Isabellacat]

Bite him back!!! lol j/k(tho if you bit him where the sun don't shine that would make him stop I bet lol)...... I used to go out with someone who'd bite my tongue while kissing...Ouch...did'nt like that. I don't like pain in sex either. If it bothers you that much you should just tell him to stop. The same partner I had that I mention here also got pleasure in smacking my arm after sex which was really weird. To him it was really funny but after I got a bruise on my arm it was'nt funny anymore. That's when I told him to stop and it never happened since.

[Kallygirlie]

I agree with the others. YOu dont want to spoil his mood but he's spoiling yours. You need to find a happy medium here. My boyfriend likes it when I bite him sometimes when its really passionate. Heck I have my front 6 teeth capped and screwed to the bone and he likes me biting so hard I can feel my teeth shift. Thats sooo not cool with me and he knows it. I ONLY bite when he tells me he wants it.

[kms]

I'm guessing your fiance is from UAE as well? My bf is from that part of the world (not UAE though), and he also looooves biting. Sometimes we'll just be watching TV and he'll put his head in my lap so I can pull his hair (he likes that too), and he'll randomly start biting my leg. I hate it because I have sensitive skin but he seems to enjoy it. He also likes biting my arms... my cheeks... definitely my neck, boobs, butt... he's a lot more careful though these days since he knows I don't like it. It's more of a soft bite now, which I don't mind. Perhaps you should just tell him when he's NOT biting you (because otherwise he might feel hurt/rejected/offended). Don't be grumpy about it either; keep your tone light and just explain that it hurts and perhaps he could at least do it more softly?

and lol danceintx, my bf does the same to me sometimes... I'll be asleep and suddenly find myself in the midst of sex. Half the time he doesn't know he's doing it though; he'll be in the midst of it and then suddenly roll over and be sound asleep. I guess it's a kinkier version of sleepwalking.... I did look it up btw and it does seem to be an actual condition.

[kms]

Oh, and if he starts biting again after saying he would stop, perhaps instead of stopping him completely and ruining the 'moment', redirect him instead by softly putting your hand to his mouth, or you suddenly taking charge and kissing/biting his neck. It seems he may be getting lost and carried away in the moment and ends up forgetting that you don't like it.

[noor]

I do bite him ofcourse and he loves it even though it will leave marks on him. I usually bite gently and suck. One of my friends had told me to bite him hard so that he gets the message. Since then I started biting him hard and he loves it. So I told him directly and he said he would not do it again but ends up doing everytime. He stopped biting my lips everytime though. But still it happens sometimes.

He's not from UAE though he lives here. He's from Egypt.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

People have sense of humors .. Me too promise no jokes though.

Well, he can't help himself if he promises that he will stop but can't, he loves it obviously as he loves it when you do it to him.. It's part of who he is and he can't stop.

This is hard because, how do you change someone who likes something and can't stop?

No matter what we tell you.. And, you have a right to say "I don't like it" definately..

But, he gets carried away and starts, what can you do, put your finger to his mouth? smile and change the position, situation? That's all I can think off. Change the pattern immediately at that time, without saying stop and ruining it.

Bottom line is you don't like it, if he can't stop you have to consider if he is what you really want in life.

CW