[jml900]

sometimes during sex be it missonary style, or doggy style, if my boyfriend puts his penis all the way into me it hurts and is uncomfortable...there have even been times where we have had to stop for a minute because it was uncomfortable.....it feels like his penis is hitting an organ inside of me....he has a larger than average penis size, but its not porn star big so i dont know whats going on? Anyone else get this with deep penetration...????

[LanaBear]

If he's longer than average, he's probably hitting your cervix which is not the most comfortable thing in the world. I believe, someone correct me if I'm wrong, but your cervix is about 6-7 inches up there, if he's hitting it, it won't feel good.

[jml900]

thanks for the information

[danceintx]

I used to, but after a couple of kids, a freezing of my cervix, and 15 years of sex, every nerve ending in my cervix I'm sure is shredded, lol. Mabye he could angle up more instead of straight back? Just brainstorming.

[barbiedoll]

Yeah, LanaBear is right, that G-sweetspot is somewhere between 4-6 inches and it varies between sizes of women. My husband is nearly 9 inches and used to hurt but now he only uses about 4 or 5 inches and with his girth, which is not quite 7 inches, is the main reason I feel him so much more. Girth is more of the key to stimulation than length. Length is visual stimulation, girth is realtime stimulation.

[OGFL]

actually lanabear was discussing the cervix. never heard or found gspot on any girl past 3 inches in, so must be one heck of a big girl barbiedoll

[ItsASecret]

I would have to agree with Lanabear. My boyfriend is quite large as well (7.5 when erect) and that sharp pain happens to me quite a bit so I have to tell him to just calm down and not go so deep (he gets really into the mood).

[LanaBear]

actually lanabear was discussing the cervix. never heard or found gspot on any girl past 3 inches in, so must be one heck of a big girl barbiedoll

HAHA - oh yes, g-spot and cervix, two different things.

One is amazing when touched, the other not so much. I was thinking two knuckles in, but I guess it would be all relative to how big your hands were.

If you think he is hitting your cervix, try different positions, something that doesn't allow for such deep penetration.

[Miya]

I agree with LanaBear re the original post. He's probably hitting your cervix and it's definitely not a pleasant feeling.

You could try being on top so you'd be able to control how deep he goes. (plus I think it's kinda fun that way)

[Guest]

never heard or found gspot on any girl past 3 inches in, so must be one heck of a big girl barbiedoll

lol....