[Guest]

Hi,

We always have lots of foreplay before intercourse. foreplay runs 2-3 hours. he starts kissing me on all my body, then he plays with my boobs. we do oral sex. he plays with my clit a lot and I really like it. I get most excited when he sucks it and rubs it. after lot of foreplay I sometimes don't feel interested in having intercourse and I get tired. It is normal. Shall we do less foreplay? shall we start intercourse when I get wet? I get tired particularly after oral sex.
please give some advice.

Thanks

[LanaBear]

Oh my... 2-3 hours of foreplay, sweetie, shorten it up. If you're getting tired, it's no wonder.

[Guest]

Try intercourse first....then oral after.

[Kallygirlie]

I agree with Lanabear. Shorten it up hun. 2-3 hours? I'm lucky if we make it 30 mins before we're ready to attack each other LOL!!!

[danceintx]

Seriously, 2-3 hours? I love foreplay like any other woman, but you can have too much of a good thing. I am happy with 30 minutes like kalliegirl said. Foreplay may be much more staisfiying if you end it when you are really hot and bothered with sex than having sex once you are winding down from it.

[Chantalemma]

You are quite lucky,, I am happy if I get 5 mins of foreplay lately... it is like here we go again... he just pounces on me then that is it.. it's over... it is great when it lasts but sometimes or most of the time I walk away unsatisfied....

Thanks

[noor]

For me it's 30 mins-45 mins as he doesn't lasts more than 15 mins in 1 session.

[nightqueen]

You are quite lucky,, I am happy if I get 5 mins of foreplay lately... it is like here we go again... he just pounces on me then that is it.. it's over... it is great when it lasts but sometimes or most of the time I walk away unsatisfied....

Thanks

And you still have sex with him? It always amazes me how many women are dissatisfied with sex, and yet, continue to agree to do it. If he just "pounces on you" and it's over, why are you with him?? What makes so many women settle for being unhappy in bed?

[Guest]

What makes so many women settle for being unhappy in bed?

You would be suprised to see how many there actually are. We are lucky to have a few truthful souls here that actually represent the demographic.

But then again, if you ask 100 women what makes a man good in bed they'll give you 100 different answers. I know - I've done it.

[WildChild]

Sounds like you need to mix it up. Short and sweet can be really good sometimes and long a luxurious can be lovely - sometimes. For most of us woman and man variety is the spice of life. Talk to him about it let him know how much you enjoy all his effort and attention - believe me there are a lot of women who don't get any of it, you don't want him to Never do it. But tell him sometimes you'd just like a quickie and then take the initiative and just jump him ?