[Karina]

:Hello every one, I'm Karina I'm 28 years old, I live with my BF his 30 and I'm pregnant. We stop having sex 1 1/2 moth he told me that he was scare for my belly and the baby, and then he says his tier and stress. I don't know what to do I want to have some action going. But I don't know what to say or how to ask any more. I don;t know what to do? Is not the same playing with my self.
We when to one of my checkups and the doctor say it was fine to have sex, I am 5 moths pregnant.

Any suggestions?????

[happy ending]

i thought it was ok to have sex all through your pregancy, do you think it is the health concerns holding him back? some guys have a problem seeing mothers as sexual beings, do you think that could be it?

[AloneNtheCrowd]

You are right Happy Ending, it is ok to have sex through out pregancy, even benifical! Karina, I agree with Happy Ending, take him with you, to doctor will reassure him it's ok. Pregant sex is great! Take it from a father of 2, he won't regret it if he just gives it a try. You could also try initiating it more, early in the morning use to work well for me and my ex, before I knew what was going on I was too worked up to not take action lol.... good luck!

[Karina]

I don't know, as long he is not cheating.

[AloneNtheCrowd]

Do you think he might be? That'd be a whole another issue..... What makes you feel that way?

[Karina]

How should I take it? :-(

I don't know,AloneNtheCrowd I don't think so a guy can go with out sex for a moth or longer. He has this girlfriend, that I feel that he gives her to much attention. She is a waiter, she does take me to that restaurant any more until I told him I want it to go, he say ok That they he avoid me every time she was around. When we were living the restaurant she look my belly and I realize she didn't know I was pregnant, when we got home he got a txt message it was her saying: So is how you handle parenthood, why you didn't told me. I understand yyour rounder conversation now.
Then he left the room and when to asker her. You can't imagine how I hate her.

[happy ending]

why hate her, who knows what carp your man has told her. i think you need a serious talk with your boyfriend. it all sounds very sus!

[danceintx]

Yep, I would be very suspicious about that woman. If he isn't doing anything wrong, than he would have no reason to hide things from you.

[AloneNtheCrowd]

Yeah that sounds strange! I think you need to confront him about it ASAP, and don't let him avoid the convo. You guys are having a child together, he needs to be honest with you. If he's acting funny then there's a reason. I hope everything works out....

[LanaBear]

I agree with everyone else. There would be nothing for him to hide if he hasn't done anything. The sooner you address it the better. You need an honest answer from him...