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  • d4lly
    Member
    • Feb 2009
    • 32

    tips for giving a good bj

    heyy
    ok so i was wondering if anyone could give me some tips about giving a good bj and deepthroating. i havnt given a lot of bjs b4 and i want to get better at them for my bf
    cheers
  • WildChild
    Banned
    • Sep 2008
    • 14142

    We've had serveral threads on this, including one very recently on deep throating. Why not do a site search?

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    • d4lly
      Member
      • Feb 2009
      • 32

      ok good idea..i'll do that

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      • Texinator
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2009
        • 5556

        #1 Don't use your teeth. Obviously!

        #2 Be enthusiastic. Acting like you're enjoying it goes a long way.

        Other than that it pretty much depends on your guy and on anything specific that he might like. Don't be afraid to ask him or to experiment.

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        • x.st.angel.x
          Veteran Member
          • Apr 2009
          • 1479

          and....speaking of experimenting :P maybe try sucking on an ice cube before going down on him...:P

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          • alterview
            Member
            • Oct 2009
            • 47

            my thoughts

            I really don't want to imgine but I can guess that giving head is an arduous task. Possibly because I have 'good' stamina. As Tex pointed out: enthusiasm is key to the whole endeavor. Also remember, that the giver is in the drivers seat.

            From my experience here are a few tips that might make it easier on the giver of said bj:

            -deep throating is over-rated, variety is wonderful. Do not worry about how deep you can take a penis into your mouth.

            -because you are in the drivers seat, when you get tired try something like asking your partner to straddle your chest and tell them how much you want to watch them masturbate. This will give you a much needed break and can be very informative too. You can jump back in at anytime and help finish. It should be easy to tell when your help is needed. Enthusiasm, again is key.

            -being able to multitask is also very nice. Other stimuli can help a lot.

            Make it fun! Try different things, variety...

            btw- in the best of craigslist there is a great post from 5-22-09 titled 'tips for giving head'.

            best of luck!

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            • d4lly
              Member
              • Feb 2009
              • 32

              thx for all ur help
              ok i'll try all of that it sounds good!!

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              • SinisterUrge
                Veteran Member
                • Feb 2008
                • 370

                wet, messy, loud

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                • Miya
                  Veteran Member
                  • Aug 2009
                  • 518

                  Looking up at his eyes while you do it really gets them going (at least in my limited experience in this field) Guys??

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                  • Crystal
                    Junior Member
                    • Oct 2009
                    • 1

                    i agree with everyone else on here. Dont use your teeth. i never thought of that until i ended up biting my bfs ....so te best thing you could do is not use your teeth

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