[Uneeklyme]

I think a bi-man could live a normal life as a st8 man, at least I have for 38 years. Given the right person in the right situation I could give that person a BJ but that's as far as my dreams go. I did some fooling around (MM & BJ) with three of my peers when I was 14/16 and the desire has been there all these years. We have three grown boys.... controlled.

I agree. It seems in your case you have bi tendencies but are more hetero. Im curious... Would you ever tell your wife that you have a remote attraction to men? Have you ever felt a real desire to cheat being of the bi persuasion as sorrid suggests is easier and more likely in bi men?

[SorridLives]

I agree. It seems in your case you have bi tendencies but are more hetero. Im curious... Would you ever tell your wife that you have a remote attraction to men? Have you ever felt a real desire to cheat being of the bi persuasion as sorrid suggests is easier and more likely in bi men?

Of course, I would like to hear the answer also. I think he already answered he might be able to engage in a BJ. Is that right? Not sure I got it straight...(NO pun intended.)

[Merry]

Seems to me that if you really think a bi guy can't be faithful to a female, you are saying that sex with a female is no where near as pleasurable. I just don't think that is true.
I can see that if the guy is actually gay, pretending to be bi.

[SorridLives]

Seems to me that if you really think a bi guy can't be faithful to a female, you are saying that sex with a female is no where near as pleasurable. I just don't think that is true.
I can see that if the guy is actually gay, pretending to be bi.

I am not sure who this is addressed to, Merry, but my answer would be that maybe I am of the mind that a lot of bisexual guys lean toward men *sexually* (not necessarily emotionally). I didn't really know I felt that way until recently, but I guess I do, in general.

[SRJ]

I have no idea where to start. We were in bed the other night (dirty talking...) I am aware he has fantasies of me with other women or watching me with a man (not my thing,but I can why he would like it...) but last night he said he wanted to have sex with the man. I didn't want to make him feel uncomfortable, but when we were thru I asked him if he would really like and he said- I don't think so- The next morning I still couldn't get t out of my head so I just point blank said, "you know I love you, but there are things I am not willing to work thru to satisfy your desires or fantasies. that can never happen with us. EVER. If that is something you need then we should move on, I'll always love you and support you, but I don;t want that lifestyle. Do you think you may be bi-sexual?" He said " no, I don't think so. Why are you so insecure?"

For the record, I am now insecure about the relationship I have been in for the past 6 years. I, myself am not an insecure person. We are planning on getting married within the next year and I don't want to end up on a relationship with my best friend who has lustful desires I can't fill. (cuz- you know that will rear it's ugly head one day)

We have been together since our early 20s and I also wonder if our relationship has hinder some nescessary sexual experimenatation.

HELP ME.... I don't think I could be anymore blunt, but I fell like he's turning this back to my insecurities.

Look buy a big strap on and cum flavor lube and give him a night where u use him. The lube is important and the size is too. You will know the next morning..also fill your hole with the cum flavor lube and after u dogged his hole for a while maybe get u a bbc dildo put cum on it and make him eat you out..don't let him back out. Then deny him sex with you tell him you are made for real men. Give him a hand job tell him things about how small he is. U will know if he wants it or not

[MarriedBiEnergy]

Well said, my husband told me years after we married he had sex with several guys in HS then later at parties he would let men use him sexually. I asked if he wanted to have sex with another man. He said no, but I knew he lied. I had secretly fantasized of watching gay sex. months later a friend at work(bi) man came over and I was more turned on watching them anal sex and blow each other . Now 3 years later we are in open sexual marriage that we can both bring other people to our bed. I'm now into rough huge black men that enjoys my hubby.??