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Please wait

Perhaps it's fate trying to tell you something! If it's meant to be it would have happened for you, so must not be meant to be! And trust me honey it's not gonna be as good as you think!

Julie

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16 Is Not Legal.

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iger2222 ******* type=text/**********> vbmenu_register("postmenu_5948", true); Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 1

help!!!! argh!!! ok im 16 years old, yes, im legal, and i have a very serious boyfriend who i would like to have sex with. the only problem is, my hymen is too thick and is excruciating when he tries to break it! I can't go to the gynecologist because my parents would not approve and would call me a ****. some one please help me!!!!

Lol lame, I lost mine on my 15th birthday with my ex bf, but a bout a year befor I was warned to start masterbating ALOT so it wouldn't hurt.


Masterbate a little bit each night with something about the thickness of a carot, go a little bit harder each time you WILL bleed a little

After that you should be fine.

I made sure to prepare myself (I didnt want my first time to be painfull)


So when I first did it was not painfull at all

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mmm...yeah i was 16 when i lost mine to my boyfriend at the time, whom now i can't stand at all. however, i don't regret it, even though i hate him.

i would agree with everyone else in telling you that you shouldn't do it. ATLEAST you both talked about it first, that's good because usually that type of thing doesnt' happen before sex happens. but, i mean i'm sure there's probably some kind of free clinic or something around your area that you can go to if your parents still disagree with sending you there. but i mean it would be good for a girl to go after she gets her first period, maybe you can use that excuse.

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I don't mean to sound old fashioned, but just wait till you're married!! It's so much better when you're in a wonderful, committed relationship, with the man you'll spend the rest of your life with!! I didn't wait, and totally wish I would have!! It wasn't worth all the heartache!!

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You're not ready

Hormones are raging!!!
I've been there - lost my virginity to someone that wasn't worth my time! I got HPV from the first guy I slept with. He'd been around the block more than a few times! I got pregnant and had an abortion - all before I turned 18.
Now I'm 27 and have been trying to get pregnant with my husband for 3 years. He waited for me and I didn't wait for him...now I feel horrible because I'm most likely the problem with us not being able to conceive!

If you can't talk to your parents about your feelings then you shouldn't do it - listen to that little voice in you head.

Trust me honey, it's not worth doing it now! When you meet the right guy you'll know. Don't become desensitized to sex - it's worth a lot more than you think!

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theres places called planed parenthood or family planning when you can go without your parents knowing and get looked at or get a exam and birthcontrol all next to nothing jus look them up in your area there really helpful

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Ok I agree with Kaylar.

DONT DO IT!!!

Please wait. You will be so happy that you did.
When I was in High School I played sports like Kaylar
and I was the only girl in Drum line and was in theatre.
I was constantly around guys and I saw how they talked
about different girls... Thats mostly why I didnt date very
much in High School because the guys I did hang out with
kept the other guys away because they didnt want me to
be the girl of the week.

When I did date and I would tell a guy NO they waited, they didnt
push the subject because they understood respect. You want to be the one they respect not the one they use.

You dont want to be the girl they call the ****. You want to be the one who saves herself for the Right ONE... not the one Right NOW.

I am getting ready to turn 22 and I am glad I waited for my fiancee
It will mean much more to you than you can imagine now but in the future when you are telling your kids to wait... Do you think they will listen if you didnt wait? No they wont. Think of yourself and what you will gain by waiting.
Take care sweetie and I wish you all the best. You need anything let us know we will help.
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[kaylar]

Strangely, KDiva, I also got married when I was twenty two.
I didn't miss anything, except a whole heap of regret, shame
and the rest that 'easy' girls get.

To hear guys strategise as to how to screw this gal, and
then to give (no pun) a blow by blow description, ridiculing,
for that's the tone, then creating a 'pass around' scenario...
and other guys saying; "So who gives the best blow job?"
And you go to school with these girls...(and don't ever
drink from the same cup!)...and you wonder...can they be
so stupid that they don't know what is going on?

And to see the girl simpering and smiling because she's
wearing Larry's ring around her neck...when that's Larry's
signal, "Been There, Done That"....
I mean, gosh....

And if you dare to say anything to these girls? Forget it!
They look 'down' on you! After all they have a 'boyfriend!"

Little do they know that if you called one of those boys
in Drum Corp because you needed help the same time
his 'girlfriend' did, she'd be the one waiting, you'd be the
one accomodated, because, hey! That's Kdiva! That's
MY FRIEND, she COUNTS. While the girl was a screw.

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HEHE Kaylar is right... their girlfriends lasted oh about a week or maybe a month and even if they had been together longer ... If i needed them they were there for me before her usually ...Why? because they were "getting some" from their gf but I was the one they respected in the long run.