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Me and my guy mostly start out in missionary too. sometimes he'll throw one of his legs over one of mine and turns him a little to the side and OMG it feels good. but we shift quite a bit too. cowgirl is good and my guy has lots of fantasies he has been wanting to try out. like outside, in public and so on. so doggy is best that way. we're not really picky but i think missionary is the most common, we are really deeply emontional people and we like to look at eachother when we make love. may sound corny but so ultimatley romantic to look into his eyes and have the big O.Comment
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I think a lot of people put to much focus on position rather than pleasure. There are so many ways to do it and what matters is that it feels good to both partners. I think a lot of guys want to relive visuals they've seen in porns and it makes it exciting for them, and women tend to lean toward positions that hit the spots they get the most feelings from.
I've come to find so many ways to do it that I've never even seen in a porn flick (probably because there isn't a good camera angle for it) that both feel great and provide access to lots of things to look at and feel. Postions there are no names for, just slight variations and twists of the body that get us both there awesomely.Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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Totally agree with you. There are so many positions that it is most definitly hard to just stick to the odd few. well for me it is anyway. Like HD says, ive come to notice through expereinces that guys do tend to waver on asking for positions that are the traditional 'porno styles' or random styles that are seen on pornos - not from their own imagination.I think a lot of people put to much focus on position rather than pleasure. There are so many ways to do it and what matters is that it feels good to both partners. I think a lot of guys want to relive visuals they've seen in porns and it makes it exciting for them, and women tend to lean toward positions that hit the spots they get the most feelings from.[FONT="Comic Sans MS"][SIZE="2"][COLOR="DeepSkyBlue"]"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - Chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming WOO-HOO what a ride!!"[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]
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We usually start in missionary. At some point he stands, while i go to the edge of the bed. And I always make sure I get to be on top in many positions.
Every position in-between those are different, and how it ends is always different. We love doggy style, spooning, and something else I can't even describe really, but it works for us! =][COLOR="#ff00ff"][FONT="Franklin Gothic Medium"]"A loving heart is the truest wisdom"-Charles Dickens[/FONT]
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We use alot. Probably the most common is variations of missionary, such as legs up.
My absolute favorite though is doggy, but with her sitting up on her knees with her back to my chest.
Although we are constantly trying new positions, so we don't have a specific one, because that would make sex stale
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I wonder why that is. Sex feels good to me when its happening, some positions hit my spots better than others and I prefer those... and they would never become stale for me. I spice it up for my guy, but to me... I'd be content getting to orgasm consistantly with passion, even in the same position.
Most people don't have to masturbate in a new room every time they do it in order to experience pleasure... the don't have to hang upside down off the bed or lather themselves in chicken feathers... but for sex it seems a lot of people need to have it so many ways and constantly changing or its "stale"
I've been with guys in my past that spend so much time trying to flip you this way and that way that I never found my groove. I am greatful that my boyfriend and me don't try to tackle the kama sutra in its entirety... every... single... session..
We pick one or 2 ways that feel good and focus on that. Sometimes I think it felt like a competition for some of the men in my past. As if Randy, Paula and Simon were going to rate him afterward on his performance. Quality, focused positions... over quantity acrobatics anyday for me.Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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