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  • QueenGinger
    Junior Member
    • Nov 2009
    • 6

    Looking for new things to try in bed and I've tried alot

    So I've been dating the same guy for a couple of years now and I wanna try new things. Mainly to please him but also me (I tend to have a hard time getting off but I also to don't voice my needs alot either. I just feel like I might offend him.) We've had a very open relationship. Trust me I've tried alot and have done some anal probing on him too tho I think I enjoy it more then him. I'm just looking for something new and different. Any suggestions are welcome I'm not squeemish and I live by the idea don't knock it before you try it.
  • nightqueen
    Senior Member
    • Jan 2009
    • 139

    A new concept: Voice your feelings! Tell him what gets you off and what doesn't. Don't worry about offending him and go for it!

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    • happy ending
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2008
      • 869

      i like reading in bed, also sleeping!!! LOL, dont really have any suggestions, maybe try uporn.

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      • danceintx
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2009
        • 317

        I am trying some new things with my bf at the moment. New things we both really like:

        thigh highs and high heeled leather boots (he really loves this)
        standing up position (I stardle him, he lifts me up to face him and holds my butt)
        spanking (we both really like)

        Things we are thinking we would like and want to try:
        sex swing
        “The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.” - William Arthur Ward

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        • happy ending
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2008
          • 869

          what is a sex swing?? i have an umm friend who wants to know?

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          • danceintx
            Veteran Member
            • Sep 2009
            • 317

            Originally posted by happy ending
            what is a sex swing?? i have an umm friend who wants to know?
            Lol, google Topco sex swing. Looks very, very interesting. You get in it in a variety of ways, it has a little bungee action to it, etc. I think it would make our standing up position pretty amazing.
            “The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.” - William Arthur Ward

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            • Texasred
              Veteran Member
              • Oct 2009
              • 1216

              Originally posted by danceintx
              I am trying some new things with my bf at the moment. New things we both really like:

              thigh highs and high heeled leather boots (he really loves this)...
              Thigh-highs and high-heeled ANYthings are a guaranteed turn-on for me and, I suspect, several other men...

              I have a friend who wears thigh-highs ALL the time, and seeing her exit her Corvette pretty much sets the mood for the evening for me!

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              • WildChild
                Banned
                • Sep 2008
                • 14142

                I saw a clothed demonstration of a swing at the Sex Show. It would probably do the job but I'd imagine be of more use to those who aren't very agile or active. Or it would be one of things you haul out once in a while to just do something different.

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                • rcoreyus
                  Veteran Member
                  • Sep 2007
                  • 4369

                  Have you tried role-playing?

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                  • Texasred
                    Veteran Member
                    • Oct 2009
                    • 1216

                    Originally posted by rcoreyus
                    Have you tried role-playing?
                    "Roll" playing, yes...

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