[sexyredhead]

i am 22 and only had 2 sexual partners. me and my current bf have been 2gether for just over a year and now he wants me to show him how filthy i can be in bed and i really need some tips please help

[Theresa]

Filthy or sexy and open to new ideas in bed?

[seeker82]

Dont have a shower for a couple of weeks you should be well dirty by then that will teach him lol..

Seriously though I think guys when they ask for filth its more about the attitude of the woman rather than what she does . you can do all the same things i'm sure your doing now but do it with more gusto. have that pornstar look when sucking him and make more noise when hes having sex with you.. ie you might normally say i love you but he wants to hear omg i love feeling your **** throbbing inside me more more more lol . basically just be more animated . well thats my opinion anyway . but then i'm a girl and my idea of filth is probably way different than a blokes although i have my moments :-).

dressing up is good too do you do that already ?? if you dont that may be anough to satisfy him along with the attitude nothing my bloke likes better than a dirty lil maid or a ****ty nurse once in a while . its all fun .:-) .

[StillLearnin]

Yes, it's all about the attitude.

Get the book "A Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex." It has a lot of ideas on how to change attitude to be a filthy "bad girl."

[Steph33]

My guy loves potty mouth, anything you can think of for me to say what I want him to do or what I want to do to him.

I never was with a real "likes talked to" guy before, normal yes but mine loves all types talking (loving, sexy, horny, ****ty, etc). I asked him for some examples that would crank him. Got 3 typed pages next day.

Once I got the hang of it all, since then have enjoyed I can make him nuts just verbally whenever or wherever I want.

And made me more verbal than I was, which was more than most.

I'm more dominant than him, and we have a blast every time. He follows excited instructions very well, especially when I'm near screaming at him what to do more, faster, or harder. I think he cums more when I TELL him to and how much I want him to.

[sexyredhead]

thank you for all ur suggestions keep them coming i really need help

[SinisterUrge]

he wants me to show him how filthy i can be in bed and i really need some tips please help

Oh god, that could be anything from using a vibrator during intercourse to doing things banned by the Geneva Convention of 1949.

Just to be safe, here's a list of "vanilla kink" you could try.

*Rent and watch a porn together (sneeking into the back room of the videostore together is part of the fun)
*Blindfolds (easy to make, fun to use)
*silk scarves for handcuffs
*candlewax to the chest (must have shaved chest... or smear hairy chest with baby oil first)
*dirty talk (just say what you want, or what is happening in the most profane way you can think of.... this gets easier with practice)
*new positions in new places (rear entry on the washing machine, "splitting birch" on the kitchen table)
*stick a finger up his butt and give him a prostate massage during a BJ (latex gloves and lube available at the drugstore)
*make oral sex as wet, messy and loud as possible.
*"Toy show" (basically masturbating for an audience of one)
*costumes

[ThexMrs]

I agree with what the above posters have said. I'm seriously jealous. My guy wants to be all sweet and loving during the act. I remember telling him to "Eff me" me one time and he got upset. He said, "I will never eff you." I can't even refer to it as sex, it's "making love" to him. Sigh... I've explained to him that sometimes I just want dirty, rough sex but I never get it. He actually said, "What do you want? You want me to leave you with bruises?" Geeze... Nevermind there champ, lol.

[Steph33]

My guy is SO into outfits, leather or trashy underwear. Unreal how much variety these is and shopping around cost is not as bad as you think. A heard of cattle gave up their hides for the contents one of my closets.

And a lot of wild and diverse wigs for cheap are on e bay and elsewhere too.

[PJhavinfunagain]

I so hear you X... I think DH forgets what we were like when it was new. Granted it was 10 years. Sweet is great but sometimes I just want a bangin! I always get the "I would never have expected that of you" Which makes me feel like a ho.