"first time" question

[WildChild]

Wet isn't enough, she should be about dripping.

[caterpillar79]

Foreplay - lots of it. Clean up both of you (hygiene is important) - maybe shower together. Try oral first if she feels comfy with it. Set aside some lube should you need it. and then do it slowly.

[nightqueen]

Make sure to use lube, even if she is wet.

[Miss K]

Exactly! As kygirls says, take things slowy and remember its about having fun together, if it doesnt happen the first time, try again an other day. And maybe try oral sex first, that will probably relax her

[kygirl]

my new girlfriend has never had sex before. we have very strong feelings for one another, and although i have offered to wait, she wants to have sex soon. i would like some advice on how to make her first exprerience comfortable at least, possibly pleasurable. this is kind of embarrassing to mention, but she is concerned because i am larger than average, and i am even not sure how this is going to work. any response would be appreciated.

I would be sure to have plenty of foreplay first to make sure she is a lubricated well. I would also be sure to enter her very slowly, and to take it very slowly at first too to make sure it hurts as minimally as possible. If it's her first time, she might be a little tense even if she doesn't mean to be so I'd say to just be patient, take it easy and be sure to tell her to let you know if anything hurts, feels good, etc.

Good luck!!

[hchinaski]

my new girlfriend has never had sex before. we have very strong feelings for one another, and although i have offered to wait, she wants to have sex soon. i would like some advice on how to make her first exprerience comfortable at least, possibly pleasurable. this is kind of embarrassing to mention, but she is concerned because i am larger than average, and i am even not sure how this is going to work. any response would be appreciated.